A very good evening, I have a situation, I was on a date 3 years ago with girl, she was al nevrous when i walkt in her store, she made mistakes it was really funny. So one night when she was drunk she adds me as friends on facebook we started talking and there was a date. Now that date did not go well. So we broke contact for about 2 years. So one time 6 months ago she cotacts me because i was in the hospital and we start talking, and more and more talking. She's dating a guy and i was dateing some girl so its was all friendly talk. "So we became friends" after some time i ask what was wrong with the date, we are friends now so you can tell me. Her answer was something i did not expect: its was just over with my ex-boyfriend and he have the same name as you and i didnt want a henk 2.0. So i was thinking we are 3 year in the future now so thats a long time ago. so one night she calles me up in tears so i picked her up from her home to go talk and eat some ice cream. She told me that this guy used her and she was very sad. one week later the girl i date was talking different to me, did not give me any atention anymore so i quit that girl.

And now im single and she is single but we are friend, i was there for her in hard times, she stells me everything and im a good friend to her. On her birthday i took her with me to dinner at a restaurant and it was the best time. That was the moment i realised that i can not be friends with her anymore. I really like this girl. Now this girl is really hurted by people in her life, tells me things that really are not normal, and im that guy-friend she can trust so i think that she dont want to ruin our friendship but i cannot be friends no more. So my question is how would/should i bring it, what would you guys say? I was thinking that im going to kiss her and see what happends? What are your suggestions?

Greetz and thanks for the help! Sorry for my english hope you can read it anyway i did my best on it!

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You're not in the friend zone until you've had the balls to go for the kiss and get rejected (or you got rejected for a get together).

So far, this girl is hanging with you. Ask her out for a drink or to watch a movie. If she says yes, escalate.

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If you want to kiss her, then act accordingly. Start by teasing/flirting her (not teasing yourself); while she's talking, look deeply to her eyes and mouth. Touch her. If you have doubts about kino escalation, check Di Carlo's escalation ladder.

I don't know if you're in the friendzone (probably you are). Just because she didn't told you "we're just friends", it doesn't mean the opposite.

You don't "get out of the friendzone". You don't go backwards in time.

If this is just a coincidence and she messaged you because whatever, flirt with her and see where it goes.
If not, meet NEW people.

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If anything you could start seeing other girls and see how she reacts to that. Or just stop being friends with her if your attraction is that high. Either way, she's not going to magically develop feelings if you muster up the courage to kiss her.