Getting out of the friendzone



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2016 8:30 pm 
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A very good evening, I have a situation, I was on a date 3 years ago with girl, she was al nevrous when i walkt in her store, she made mistakes it was really funny. So one night when she was drunk she adds me as friends on facebook we started talking and there was a date. Now that date did not go well. So we broke contact for about 2 years. So one time 6 months ago she cotacts me because i was in the hospital and we start talking, and more and more talking. She's dating a guy and i was dateing some girl so its was all friendly talk. "So we became friends" after some time i ask what was wrong with the date, we are friends now so you can tell me. Her answer was something i did not expect: its was just over with my ex-boyfriend and he have the same name as you and i didnt want a henk 2.0. So i was thinking we are 3 year in the future now so thats a long time ago. so one night she calles me up in tears so i picked her up from her home to go talk and eat some ice cream. She told me that this guy used her and she was very sad. one week later the girl i date was talking different to me, did not give me any atention anymore so i quit that girl.

And now im single and she is single but we are friend, i was there for her in hard times, she stells me everything and im a good friend to her. On her birthday i took her with me to dinner at a restaurant and it was the best time. That was the moment i realised that i can not be friends with her anymore. I really like this girl. Now this girl is really hurted by people in her life, tells me things that really are not normal, and im that guy-friend she can trust so i think that she dont want to ruin our friendship but i cannot be friends no more. So my question is how would/should i bring it, what would you guys say? I was thinking that im going to kiss her and see what happends? What are your suggestions?

Greetz and thanks for the help! Sorry for my english hope you can read it anyway i did my best on it!

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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2016 7:56 pm 
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i would say forget that girl,you had set the wrong frame with her,my opinion,friend to friend,it will be really awkward if you try to go for something else,but i am no expert,it"s just how i do


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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2016 8:17 pm 
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By getting sexual. Friends don't have sex.

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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2016 8:42 pm 
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You're in friend zone

Make a move next time

If you manage to meet her, make a move. If the outcome you want doesn't happen, ditch her

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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2016 9:05 pm 
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The single, most effective way to get out of friend zone is to show up with another girl.

But in this case I'd just set something up, then go for the kiss.

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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2016 11:16 pm 
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You are more emotionally desperate than her. I think you are out of pussy source. Why the fuck you are trying to fuck your friend? Try to be with her , not be in her pussy.

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