Hi all,

I am not too bad at finding a situational opener with a girl (book, food if in a supermarket etc), but sometimes I am on the tube sitting or standing next to a hot girl, and there just doesn't seem like a good opener I can use. This is especially difficult during rush hour when everyone is packed in and has a grumpy/untalkative look on their faces!

There is no book she is reading or other prop to comment on, and her clothes are just normal business attire. Asking for directions is also unrealistic when we're all clearly travelling to/from work.

I realise this is stereotyping but when you add to the mix that this is in central London where people will be less friendly and more in a rush than elsewhere, it seems more important to use a decent opener.

Has anyone got any ideas on how to open a girl on the tube, especially when it is rush hour etc and there just doesn't seem to be anything that stands out about the girl to comment on?

Many thanks

Pretty simple really mate.

"This is such an awkward time to hit on you, but I just can't help myself..." (can be humorous and sexual at the same time when delivered correctly)

"You know, when you look at me like that I kind of want to say Hi..." (after exchanging IOI's)

Or simply...

"Hey, my name is Declan..." (Use your own name obviously)

As usual, it's more down to your appearance, subcoms and ability to guide the situation to a desirable outcome that will decide which sort of interaction takes place.

Circumstances is key.

Last time I've hit on a girl she was reading a book called " The truth about sex " ( no shit ) well she was cute and no way on earth I would let her get away with that by looking lifeless at that. so I went and said " I just need to know, is it a social experiment or is it a real book ? "

Once on the Picadilly line I've sat hangover as fuck in front of this girl and she was smiling to me, I stood up and went " Hey do I know you ? " she said " No " and I went " well that was a shit line anyway isnt it ? "

another time I was in the train and I was packed in between a fat man and a bird with bags. squeezed in between both unconfortably this girl in front of me was eye contacting me and I just made a funny face to the girl and then went she went off at Parsons green I left the carriage and walked casually next to her and dropped " I can finally breath " .

I got many but those are exemple that there is no right line or trick but it is just about catching opportunity, just dont hit on a women on rush hour because you're very likely to fail.

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Ever tried "Hi, I'm Rexus?"

What you "open" with is irrelevant. Hell, what you say is irrelevant. The personality you're portraying is.

Situational openers are just tips and tricks. It makes it a bit easier. Use them if you can, but if you're relying on them you're doing it wrong.

This is not texting, when coming up with a witty line is relevant since those words are pretty much all she has to work with.

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Subways are the easiest place in my experience.. And I live in the Mecca of the subways in New York City.

If you could get over the idea of the awkwardness of having people looking at you while you open a chick, the women are very response. I find women to be most responsive in high pressure environments that take the courage on part of the guy to open. Balls = Lays. The more balls it takes, the more likely it'll turn into a lay for you.

Now a days.. " I just say hey" or I'll say " Hey, what do you think about Donald trump? " or whatever the hot topic is today.

But back in the day, my go to move was to just pull up "connect 4" on my iPhone and just hand it to the woman next to me. That worked about 8 out of 10 times. They always play. From there you have conversation, tell her your taking her number if you win two in a row, etc.

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Thanks for all your replies, a lot of great ideas to try out and general advice. I especially like the idea from Natural_Dec and the insight from Eddie.

Thanks again all.