This past Friday.
So their is a few new girls at my job (all smoke shows)
I ask my one friend who's a 43 female that trains new people whats the scoop on these new girls too see whos married/single etc.

She tells me one of them asked her about me, and too be honest i had no clue who she was but its always cool to hear a chick is diggin you. Anyways, it turns out its a chick that's a good looking girl (which i should of known because i met her before and talked to her a few times, I just forgot her name). But meanwhile back to friday, my friend 43 year old tells me "i told her to stay away from you, that you're bad news etc etc" and says it to me in a jokingly matter like its funny. Well, i didnt laugh. i was like are you kidding me?! you chucked me under the bus. According to her the girl laughed but didn't seem to care (idk how true that is). She said sorry but regardless, the words have been said so im hoping this girl doesn't have this image about me.

So my question is, how do i play this. Do I talk to her and act like i dont know my friend chucked me and try getting her numbeR??
Maybe tell her to do some damage control?
Add her on fbook etc etc.

Not obsessed with this new chick but i would totally be interested in going out with her. I have no problem in being denied by a girl, but when its somebody you work with its kinda akward for the work environment.


Thanks fellas

She didnt chuck you. Relax

Unless you sleep with her that awkwardness will be too temporary to even consider. Rejection is apart of life. No one is going to make a big deal about you missing a shot. They only remember the ones you make. I do always advise against dealing with women at work though, unless you're at meaningless job that you don't have long term interest in.

This is all about the confidence that you go in with though. You can go in with "(trainer) told me she told you I was a bad guy.. What do you think?" or you can go in pretending it never happened and just start from square. Its not always what you say, its more about how its said. So the way you choose to opener is not as relevant as confidence that you open with.

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Dude, you need to chill out. A girl telling a girl you're "bad news" only works in your favor. I've had this happen too many times to count. high numbers of partners and bad boy behavior DO NOT deter women. It attracts them.


Once I showed up at my favorite watering hole with two women I was seeing at the same time. An ex-gf (who was also a bartender there) whom I still had feelings for was working. All hell broke loose, as one of the girls I was with was her friend. There was shouting and finger pointing by the bartender ex, and the staff was watching. She told the girl I was with I was" trouble" while angrily pointing at her. We leave, and the bartender texts the girl half a dozen times, saying how she can't get over me and doesn't know what to do, etc.

Hate, anger, and frustration are not the opposite of love. Indifference is.

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She actually made you look more exciting and you saw that as being chucked?

Maybe she was right, and not in the fun way.

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