Hi, my ex broke up with me about a week ago. We went out for 4 months and she seemed really in love with me (would buy me gifts and say I love you and generally everything sweet). But then I started acting needy and controlling because it seemed like some of her friends were hitting on her even though she wasn't flirting back. We got into arguements over that. One day I sent a text chain of 12+ texts at night telling her I loved her and please don't leave me and all that. So the following day she broke up with me under the context that I was acting childish and she just didn't want to be with me anymore. I know I was acting childish, I know I made that mistake, but now I want to get her back. I don't want to get her back because "you want what you can't have" or some other pua bs. I bought bradbrownings ex factor guide and am disappointed by the content. Basically since yesterday she's been posting about me on her blog (I don't think she knows I have access to it, and she blocked me on all social medias). I think if I just got her to see that I'm not needy or childish and was just having a bad few weeks we could get back together, but I don't know how to erase the damage I've done. I don't know if no contact will work. Please help.


Note: yes I'm trying to better myself, workout, dress nicer, etc in the meantime.

Also, we're both 18 and this is her first relationship and my first real relationship (that's not a superficial relationship).

The only time I contacted her is the day of the breakup when I said sorry I've been emotional lately, other things have been stressing me out besides our relationship. Wish you the best of luck. (Or something along those lines). (Then she responded with wish you luck too).

I don't think she wants to get back in a relationship with me at this point because she thinks we're going to argue because of my previous controlling and needyness, but if I could get her to see that we wouldn't maybe I could change things. Is no contact the solution?

Yes you do.

And to answer your subject line question; yes you follow the no contact rule. The girl has already blocked you on social media and told you that she was done. I say this all the time but when the door says "Pull" you don't continue to push on it unless you're a retard. And who wants to be with a retard?

You're 18 though bro.. So right now you think that this situation is all that is. And theres probably very little that can be said to make you not feel that way, but you have to go no contact. Thats the only option.

I wrote an article titled " Going Through A Break Up? Read This Now" for WayOfThePlayer.. You should look it up, read it, and apply everything in it.

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