Hello, I'm looking for an advice in this specific situation.
There's a girl that has a boyfriend. She claims she's unhappy but still stays with him because she's afraid that she will be lonely and I'm having pretty strong player vibe to her.

We've been out several times and had amazing chemistry. We kissed and then she got regrets. But admitted to me right there and then that we must never meet again or she won't be able to resist me. We met again, we fucked. Then she became extremely regretful and things went badly. After some time we met again and spent an amazing day together that ended up in bed again.

That day she even dissed all her meetings with friends and made an excuse for her bf why she can't be with him. Pretty strong move. Then she started planing our next meeting etc. Everything was perfect until she left. Regrets again. She admits that she's uncontrollably attracted to me and that's why we can't meet.

The problem is that over the text, she has all the power. In person, she's completely drawn into my reality. How would you go about getting her to meet again?

Thank you very much

You leave her alone and let her come to you.

The more you chase the more she will cling onto the current boyfriend. That relationship is going to naturally wear itself out. And that'll happen faster if you stop letting her have the best of both worlds. " Attention from you both".

Sounds like you're getting slight oneitis because you're in a situation that presents you with a challenge. And we all know how Men love challenges. Back off a bit. The next time she texts you, ignore it.. Respond to her on the second text. Put her on the chase. Keep conversations short. Push her to meet and then cut the conversation if she provides any resistance. She knows what you're capable of already, but she's on offense. This is only going to work if you take the ball.


However, you won't like the girl once she leaves him. The thrill will be no longer.

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Eddie's pretty much on point.
Back off a little and she'll most likely come to you.

You'll be the only thing on every time her relationship drowns her spirits.

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Yep id go with above approaches.

Thanks for all the replies.
There is a second part to it - her boyfriend actually confronted me on several occasions.
First when he found out that we're messaging each other, then after I kissed her (he pretty much took her phone and went through messages) and forced her to unfriend me on fb and forbid her to message me, and one more time when he found out it didn't work (she initiated the contact).
Anyway, I had the opportunity to tell him what happened, which would 100% end their relationship.
I denied everything because I'm opposed to getting the girl by destroying their relationship so I'd be the only one left.
But when we slept together for the second time, she, in a way, held that against me (saying something it would be easier if he wasn't around).

He's playing with her emotions a lot to the point of abuse. She's the only thing in the world that he has and she's holding on to him just because he's a safe choice and won't ever leave her.

Anyway, even though I think it's a bad idea to be the one who decides their fate, any opinions on this would be appreciated. Thanks

It's a bad idea. Don't be stupid.

Look dude, this guys sounds like a mess. He's needy and insecure. He's jealous as fuck and apparently abusive. You don't need to do shit, he's pushing her away of his own with his repulsive behavior.

It's on her. Any woman that's even remotely worth your time will find it in her self to walk away from bad relationship. If she does, good. If however she's doesn't, that's because her own sense of self-worth is too low for her to think she can do better. And that's not the kind of woman you want in your life.

Just be the fun guy she couldn't resist in the first place and don't even mention the other dude. She has to be capable of standing on her own two feet. If one of you force her to make a choice, she'll eventually choose the one who didn't.

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