Principles of an attractive lifestyle?

Ever since Ive been on this forum I have learned so much from the forum leaders. I even started my own business and did all I could to get my shit together.
Obviously Im not there yet, but that is where Im headed and Im the happiest Ive ever been with each day.

My girlfriend for about 6 months however, was venting a bit last night. She was visibly saddened by the fact she doesnt earn enough money to keep her happy. And I get that, shes an economist of sorts but doesnt have the best of jobs. Shes also working on her bachelors and has two jobs to support her through college. Her bachelors is this summer.

Anyway, at one point she said the only thing in her life that truly makes her happy is me. And while I appreciate the sentiment, and care deeply for her, I have been there in the past. We have seen what happens to guys when they make a woman the center of their galaxy.
Now dont get me wrong, this girl is perfect. Shes not needy, shes chill, we get along great. But should I let teach her just how dangerous it is to make anyone - myself even - the primary source of her happiness?
Should I teach her the principles of an attractive lifestyle just how you would teach any of your close friends if they ever said their life isnt what they would like it to be and their partner is the "only thing that matters"?

I do understand her though. She is working two jobs and has college above of that. I finished college a year ago and I earn about 4-5 times more than she does, two jobs and all. With all that in mind she still, after all this time, never lets me pay for something as low as a meal. And even if I do she will, the next day, show up at my doorstep with a 6pack of beer and 2 bags of chips.
I have been in her shoes when I was in college. I get the feeling of mild helplessness. But I knew things were gonna get better for me because I chose a field of study that pays top dollar. Her really doesnt. Things wont get much better for her.

So do I teach what I have learend?

OP, tell her to focus on the obvious. She's in school and the money will come once she's finished.

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You can only shove her in the right direction, but the ambition has to come from her. And if she's working two jobs to support herself through college, I mean that's pretty much the definition of ambition.

But yes, she should not rely solely on you as a source of happiness. Help her find hobbies, help her get her life in order when she finished college. And by help I mean guide. Don't do anything for her, that's not your job. It's hers. But by all means, show her the way.

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Keep things usual as always till she finishes her school. Uour part begins after, u should lead her through real life. Show her directions of earning money. Thngs will chance when her finishes her college thrust me. U will have time to adjust the things. You are lucky lean back and wait for a while.

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Women are never going to find the fulfillment that we find in a career no matter how much money they make. Their entire life they're programmed to find love; from disney to cosmo. Not to mention, their biological nature influences them through emotion to find a provider and mate. There is no amount of social conditioning that is going to override the basis of our nature. Maybe in action, but never in core emotion. I've been with women from every tax bracket. And its the women that make the most and the women that make the least that are the most unhappy. If they're not complaining about the money, they're compiling about something else. The sadness doesn't always stem from the place we choose to express it. Often times women will feel these negative emotions and they will look for something to pin it on. What they pin it on doesn't necessarily have to be it; they just have to find a way to rationalize the emotions for the sake of their own sanity.

So it may not be the money, the two jobs, or the career. She's simply unhappy and trying to figure out why. More money wouldn't necessarily change that. She's telling you because she's looking for you to lead her out of the emotion, but so long as you think its external you'll never be able to.

What women are learning today is against their core nature. There are more women suffering from depression than ever before. The ways of man aren't necessarily the ways of women. Now while nothing applies to "all" generally this is the case.

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Absolutely. You encourage and help her in becoming a better person and she'll love you even more for it.