Hi guys,

Ive being going out there just talking to girls where ever i go and i meet this girl at a men's clothing store when i was looking for some shirts n stuff. Initially i didnt really intent on gaming her but she came to serve me and we got chatting and built a good connection where we talked about things that interested her like books n stuff which is what i HAD on me funny enough.

when it came time for me to go checkout i said " you know ur a interesting person, why dont we catch up for a coffee"

( ive used this many times.. it doesnt work.. its the lamest line ever ..lol
ive relised that!)

she immediatly said no, ive got a bf.. then i went " oh of course not, just as friends tho."(best i could come up with on such short notice =\ and she looked stunned for a sec) -- mayb i handled it well ?

she was very open about it and said she doenst like to give her number out to ppl she doenst fully know yet and she would bar my number etc etc if she did giv it 2 me now. she did however say to me come around and visit her more tho and she would be more comfortable over time and then she might give me her number.. farr out man.. what a mission. At this point i considered that my FIRST IOI.

either way i quickly changed the subject and we got chatting again so there was no wiredness. Once i made the purchase she said goodbye and see you soon which was a IOI to me saying "come visit me next time ur in" my second IOI.

on a side note this girl was very easy to talk to its like you ask a question and she gives a million answers i sware i could of stayed there all afternoon.

if i should c her again ,should i come back after a week ? the next day ? or not at all ?

so guys ? what do u think ? is there any interest ther ? and did i handly it well with the bf line ? tell me what you think! share your experience and opinions im all ears!!

amir-

I personally would have handled the BF line with something like, "Thats ok, i'm not into guys" and said it with a big smile. That, of course, would only work if you were using Cocky/Funny throughout. I think you might have been friend-zoned (well, you did that yourself) but it was good to get out there an approach women! If you like this girl though, it may take serious game to get out of the friend zone..

- Memento

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yer thats correct. I did it for the sake of approach and trail and error.. at this stage i ant really gona attach myself to every single chick i think is hot and stuff. but thats a good line u mentioned.. ill make sure i use that the next time i get that objection.

Meh .. even though she is like a hb7-8.. i couldnt care less how good she is.. right now im just training myself to expand my perspective that there is plenty of women out there and it doenst matter if i miss one coz there is always plenty out there for me anyways.. who knows.. being friends with this girl might lead me to another as it always does so that breaks barriers and opens more opportunity for me .

Though that doenst mean i ant gona try and take her out for all i know she could of been BS me about the bf.. although she did hint for me to come back could that mean she isnt in a stable relationship and is keepign her opinions open ?

thanks for the input Memento i appriate it.

Amir -