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PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 9:34 pm 
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Hi guys,

I'm kinda new to the whole pick-up scene, I've spend a couple of days to improve my body language, wich went from below-average to one of the best (haven't found a pua here yet) . I found out that girls were looking at me and their opinions of me improved rapidly. But now this worked out, I found out that my conversation skills with women is rather poor. Even when girls are touching me and try multiple times to get in a conversation with me, I'm not really able to keep the conversation going.
So my question is: What do i have to learn to improve my conversation skills?


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:06 am 
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well, you have to first learn how to open a set(attract their attention), then how to make them feel comfortable(to eliminate any obstacles) and soon when u know ur good to go close them(get number or kiss close).
There are still a bunch of stuff like negs, demonstration of higher value etc.. that belong to the sets.
This is what the pua community is all about, open a set(conversation), keep them interested, get their number(or go home with them/take them home).

I am sure that you can look up all sorts of conversation tips in the other topics


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 5:16 am 
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I think your probably worrying about what to say... you can begin a coversation with the girls using an interesting story or opener however after that you can talk about the mundane and just make small talk...small talk can be quiet effective because anyone can relate to everyday situations...Think Sienfeld- The show about nothing, evern though the topics we're things that happen everyday he still made them funny....
If your still totally stuck try saying stuff like....Really?!?! and throw in ambiguos smirk..when she asks what your smiling at, reply nothing and smirk some more.

If she says something like Im a hairdresser etc. you just say something like" Ah ok...and hows that workin out for ya?" yada yada just continue-ing the conversational thread.

good luck


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 6:33 pm 
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cheers i am new to all this but its helping alot :D


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 10:33 pm 
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I suggest watching movies of good actors, to get a feel of how a good conversation happens. I don't mean Ben Affleck-actors, I mean Bogart, Rodney Dangerfield, etc. REAL classic movies. You could listen to speeches (I like MLK, Jr.), as well as watch news achors.

Having material to talk about isn't as important as having the ablity to make any conversation good. If you can talk about the most basic, boring subjects as if they are fascinating, then your convo skills will be top notch (that Seinfield reference was genius, I'm gonna try it).

Reading helps tremendously. In the world today, reading isn't very highly valued, but if you read a lot of diverse material, you'll always have something interesting to add to a conversation. Newspapers, novels, philosophy books- whatever interests you. Soon, you'll have plenty to talk about.

Also, expand your vocabulary. Tossing around one or two unusual words can make you seem eloquent in almost any setting.

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