Been out with this girl twice now and its now got to the stage where she's telling me what she'd like to do to me, but I don’t know how to take the lead.

My first (and only) sexual expericance was with a girl who I went out with for 2 years and it took me 3 months before I got any. And the last girl I went out with I got some signs but felt that I pushed too much and ended up pissing her off.

Last time I went out with this girl, we'd been making out all night and she was telling me what a good blow job she gave and then when I got her to her door, she wouldn't let me in. But then when I went to leave she'd stop me. This went on for about 5 mins until I told her I wasn't coming back and walked to my car and when I looked back, she flashed me her bra and went inside. I'm going out with her again tonight and was hoping I could get some advise as for what should I do when I get her to her door???

FUCK HER TILL SHE CRIES!!!!!!!

Guessing from the other girl where you "pushed too much" you are probably making yourself look too eager, the anti-slut defense kicks in and she says no.

Read the game? Try the freezeout, if she turns you down, become sudden cold. Check your phone, watch tv, anything that just shuts her out of getting attention.

Pretty much, it needs to feel like its her idea, or else she wont want to do it.

Two steps forward, one step back. Get in the house, get things on the right tone, then break the mood for a little bit. Then get things back in the mood, makeout, then back off for a bit. Push-pull, push-pull. Remember, SHE is supposed to be working to get YOU into bed with her, not the other way around.

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