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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 2:27 pm 
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Back on single scene and messaged a girl from FB. Saw online via mutual friend.
Wanted to try my luck and see. thoughts on the convo?..

I'm sorry if I am missing something obvious but I'm not great at this..


Me: Hi
Her: ?
Me: I love your look. Wanted to hear more. Guess you're based in X (country) …
Her: How u know x? (mutual friend)
Me: Some event time ago..

(no reply from her)..

Me: Your turn to answer ;- ) London or X capital?
Her: Actually I'm in London now
Me: I'd love to have a chat with you

(no reply from her)..

Me: I don't give up easily ; -) Come & meet me for a coffee/drink. If nothing else, maybe it's a new contact... Deal?
Her: Bless haha.. I'm flattered really , just arrived London few days ago ....
Me: Welcome. There is a cool bar we should go. Which night/s you free this week x girl?
Her: Haha.. You really don't give up where u from in London ?
Me: You’re such hard work! Haha. From X. What brought you to London?
Haha: I am ;) . I have family here. And wanted to try live here for a while


What do I do?.. leave it?.. try something ?

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 3:12 pm 
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On what basis should she go out with you?

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 3:13 pm 
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On what basis should she go out with you?
I see your point. Where would you take it from here..

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 3:36 pm 
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I wouldn't take it anywhere, because it's not going anywhere.

You gotta understand two things here.

First, the creep factor in hitting up a stranger that's not even a friend - but a mutual friend - over facebook. That's an instant uphill battle. Couple it with a conversation that lacks any form of substance, like the one above, and yeah, not gonna happen.

Second, you say you see my point but I'm doubtful. If you want her to go out with you, you need to have her invested in you first. In all honesty no girl in her right mind would've said yes, based on that exchange.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 4:34 am 
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If she wanted to have sex with you, what would you say to her?

For example, if she said “I’m in London, let’s go have sex right now” would you have said, “I’d love to have a chat with you”… Is that REALLY what you want to do?

Are you just saying that because you’re afraid to say what you’re really thinking?

You need to man up and start acting like an alpha male, and I’m not trying to be mean saying that but if you want this woman to be attracted to you it’s what you need to do, and if not that’s fine you can be one of her “buddies”.

Imagine this, you’re asking her out for coffee, and by the midafternoon some guy meets her, doesn’t offer her date or anything, just charms the pants off her, literally, then she’s blowing you off for coffee because she’s fucking the guy who was straightforward with her and got her turned on.

Are you going to be okay with that scenario? Did you still just want to meet her for coffee?

If not, you need to be direct, or you’re going to risk getting very badly burned.

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