Back-story: met a girl on Tinder, got the number, texted, called. Set up a date(?).

The problem I'm having is that people use Tinder for so many reasons -- dating, hook-ups, FWB, friends, "as a joke".

We successfully set up a "date", but I failed to officially establish it as being a date. I asked her what her intentions were in using Tinder and she went into some weird defense mode. "Not looking for hook-ups", etc., even though I mentioned nothing of the sort.

Got past that road block, but I don't know how to go about getting this sorted out without it getting weird. We're meeting up next week.

Any advice is kindly appreciated.

i swear...


i just got laid blacking out out ? Will that help you ?


Anyway, your friend asked a legit question, it seems like it will take the ground work to be have a successful outing. GOod luck.

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I'm not sure what the heck you're even trying to tell me.

basically when girls use tinder they feel insecure because it makes it seem like they are thirsty out huntin for the dick. They will often say they aren't here for hookups or its just a joke so they don't feel self-concious about huntin for dick on tinder. If you ask that question, you will often get that response from tinder girls. She is hunting for the dick and she is hunting for your dick and you kind of pointed that out to her in a way.

Basically, don't call it a date, dont call it shit, just go meet up with her somewhere public, take her around to a few places, and then ask her if she wants to go to your house to watch a movie or to eat the food you just picked up, shes already into you so don't forget to escalate.

hope this helps my mang

By the way I don't mean that all girls on tinder are sluts and are only trying to hookup, some of them do want to date for sure, but they almost are all down to hookup potentially at least if they are going to meet up with you.

I honestly do not understand the point of this question.

What does it matter "what her intentions are"? She's on tinder. She matched you. You set up a date. Her intentions are meeting you and taking it from there.

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