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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2016 4:51 am 
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Its been a while since I've gone gaming or even practiced my game. I actully learned most of my game from this very website, some from RSD and other PUA videos on YouTube, but mostly the forum. Anyway, I was learning a lot from different methods, threads, and people's journals and whatnot. So I started trying out what I learned IRL and at first it was hard I'll admit. BUT eventually I gained a lot of confidence and charisma (not just with girls mind you), and I got good at talking to girls and building attraction with girls I didn't know I could get.

I went from really shy boring dude. To someone more outgoing, more confident, and generally a better person. People liked being around me and some went out of their way to seek me out or plan stuff to do with me. It was fucking great man! :D

But, I started losing my popularity once I moved to a different city. I had a new school, and only had to friends (both were brothers) so if both didn't come to school I was a loner. :/ Not only that but the school was smaller than my last by a long shot. I had one girl I would to talk to at first that was straight GORGEOUS. But she lost interest after like 2 weeks (I guess I wasn't making any moves soon enough?). I made like one or two friends but we would mostly just ditch class to smoke some ganja because ganja was life haha. My senior year I actually got a pretty hot girlfriend with a nice ass using some of what I still remembered (she was also a stoner so I used that to my advantage), but we broke up a little bit before the year ended and she moved to a different city so that's that I guess. Now that I graduated I just go to work and go home to work on making songs (which I actually like a lot), but I haven't felt like a boss since I moved or even as attractive as I used to be. Point is I stopped practing game pretty much, probably because I got too comfortable and just got lazy about it, I was maybe a little unmotivated as well. But I want to re-learn and gain my confidence back, I don't feel like my best self any more and really want to improve myself.

What would y'all recommend me to do??


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2016 1:39 pm 
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Best thing to do...is the noobie drill, I havent done one in awhile..but its where you go out and start random convos with women somewhere in public...some of the convos will lead somewhere some wont, but the whole point is just to go out there and get rid of your fear...

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2016 3:21 pm 
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I think maybe reading too much about game and what not can over-complicate everything. As you already have found out, when you feel confident everything works out, barely matters what you are saying. So the question becomes, how do you become more confident talkin to sexy girls? Exposure. If I were you, I would focus on making as many friends/acquaintances as possible. By doing this, in the long run you will meet and be introduced to sexy girls, and improve your skills.
Hope this helps ya out somehow


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2016 9:17 pm 
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I started a random convo with a girl on a train who was about my age once, she was taller and I don't really go after taller chicks since they're more intimidating? challenging? Anyway, the opener was shit cuz I was nervous so I fucked it up lol. But I found after the opener that conversation wasn't really that hard, it didn't matter that I stuttered or mixed words up really (Good for me). It didn't really lead to anything as you said, but, I did find out that I could at least do a cold approach. Not to mention a cold approach on girls I wouldn't normally approach.

I used to have some pretty decent friends (when it came to them knowing pretty girls), but I stopped kicking it with either cuz one of them was my friends girl, and the other I couldn't really stand :x He knew a lot of girls and according to what I've seen he's actually pretty good with them. But, I absolutely hate his character tbh. He's sorta everything I don't want to become, except when it came to girls haha. My work schedule is kinda shitty SPAM and most of my freetime is on the weekend. I guess I could try to socialize on the weekends mostly and work on my music during the weekdays. I might even be able to have some hangouts during the weekdays, after all I'm still pretty young.

Do any of you have a video or something I could check out too, that deals with this kind of thing?


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