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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2016 10:35 pm 
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So after losing a shit load of chicks over text game, I decided to implement a new strategy. Now whenever I number close, I tell the girl that I do not text, and that I will call them.

I closed a chick and told her that I will call her to arrange a meet. She agreed. I called her the next day in the evening for about 10 minutes, and we agreed to meet two days later. The following day we did not speak and on the day of the meet, I called her again in the afternoon. She did not answer, I called again an hour later, still no answer and left a message. She did not reply back. I messaged her again 3 days later, again no answer. Complete radio silence.

I closed a different chick and told her the same thing. I called her the next day in the afternoon, and this time we spoke for almost an hour. I pitched a meet for the following day after asking her schedule, and she was unsure about it, but asked what we were going to do. I told her an adventure and continued building rapport and told her that I had to go back to work. I told her that I will call back tomorrow. I called back the next day and there was no answer. Called again and no answer, complete radio silence.

I was actually quite excited that moving to phone game would have better results, but clearly nothing different. They answered on the phone, which I suppose is a result in some sense. What's worse is that they both went completely silent. Unlike other chicks who go missing after text game, but will answer when you hit them up again a few days later.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2016 11:54 pm 
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Do you get numbers or do you get numbers with a purpose? I ask that because you can tell a girl that you want her number for the specific purpose of setting up a date. Not saying that this will stop them from flaking completely, but it will save you from talking and texting just so you can build up to asking them out.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 07, 2016 4:34 am 
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That's just two girls. Give it ten more tries. If it doesn't work after a dozen tries, come back here and provide more details so we can properly assess the situation.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 07, 2016 6:59 am 
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Not a big fan of calling, but flaking is common in cold approach.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 11:47 pm 
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Also, why are you on the phone with some random for an hour. She doesn't deserve that much of your time. i Would cut that shit right down to 5 minutes max if you're a beginner. 10 if you're a bit more advanced and 15 minutes if you're a pro but by that time you can kinda do what you want but still shouldn't be on the phone longer than 15 minutes. Its not your wife or your best friend, your sending out the wrong signals.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2016 1:39 pm 
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Read:pua-lounge/topic190620.html

You're not making the emotional connection. And this is largely just a reflection of your attitude and character. Its not what you do, its how you do it. If a woman doesn't feel connected to you, she's not going to want to go out with you. She doesn't know what you're capable of.

I do find that video chats(first), phone calls (second), and then (text) third is the easiest way to make an emotional connection. The more you have to work with (Facial expression, body language, tone on video chat), (Tone, emotion, consistent flow of conversation on the phone) or ( Just words and emojis on text) the easier it will be to set that connection. However, if you're not seducing, you're not seducing and that will come across regardless of the platform you use.

Now I will also say that 2 girls isn't nearly enough to test a theory. Try 10. You have to give yourself time to warm up to the process.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:26 am 
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Try forming warmer bonds on the initial time you meet the girl. Then mix in different text/call methods until you find what works for you and then hone it even more and more as time goes on. Eventually you will find out what works for you.

Two girls is way too few for you to be able to gain any understanding from your actions.


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