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Hey guys,
There is this really attractive girl from my work, i will kind of sum up what happened the past 6 months
-Basically used to only work at that specific place once a month, she doesn't work there everyday so i almost never see her
-Became good friends with the manager at that place, we started talking about girls that work there and i told her about that specific one, she helped me find her on facebook
-She and the manager wanted to join me to a party so i added her on facebook and chatted her up about the party, talked a bit, at one point she said she couldn't made it to the party, i continued the conversation and asked some stuff about her, just normal text game, she responded the first few times but after that stopped responding, i decided i prob. should just talk to her when i see her in person
-Few weeks go by, at work with her again, talk to her, make her laugh a couple times
-She and the manager are joining me and my friends to a rave later that month
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-Heard from the manager that she told her that im not really her type
Keep in mind im gaming other girls in the meanwhile, just trying to see if i can make it work with this one
-At the rave together, she keeps standing really close to me and asking my attention i guess, like if i would move to a different spot then 1 minute later she would come over there too, thing is this was a party i was looking forward to for a year, i wasn't sober (she wasn't either) and i was kind of basically focusing on the party and the music, i did notice she was standing close to me all the time but didn't really pick up on the fact that i should probably have made a move (i think this is where i fucked up)
-Next day, sober, talking to lots of people, at least 3 people told me that she was really asking for my attention and standing close to me and wanted to stand near me,
-I thought she maybe changed her mind about me not being her type, so i messaged her the day after that asking what she thought about the party, decided to just make a really bold move and asked her out on the spot, she replied
"I still think i have to decline your offer, im sorry if it wasn't clear already but im sure on this decision"
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So thats basically it, don't get me wrong, im gaming other girls in the meanwhile, its just that this one is 100% my type
So what im asking here is, do you guys think that -over time- there will be a chance for me to still get with her? I think if i took more action on that party that something might have happened, that would have maybe changed a lot, but im not sure.
Im not gonna put a lot of effort in this girl anymore, but i do want to kind of see if this can still go somewhere in the future maybe,
In a couple weeks we're going to a party again, what if she does the same and comes standing close to me all the time again? Its weird because basically thats a sign she wants me to do something/give her attention, but her words speak otherwise (Sayin gim not her type and that she's certain of her case)
Thanks for reading
She literally told you, outright that she's not interested in you, something that women RARELY do. She stopped replying on facebook. She has gone out of her way to ensure that all your coworkers know that you're not her type.
Take the fucking hint dude. Stop wasting your time.
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