This girl has been pretty tough. Saying things like I can only stay an hour etc. I make my moves though, but I make sure not to push it because she does stop it before it gets too sexual. We have been making out, it has been two dates so far...so...we will see.. I am just not used to the whole LMR. I usually can get pretty far, even a blowjob. Has anyone encountered such a thing.

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I think it might have been the fact that I shared my views on dating and marriage. Lol. I don't really believe two people are meant to be together forever. Maybe that is what is deterring her. Maybe she gets needy as hell after sex ? Maybe it could be other things.

I did tell her this, maybe one day I will find a woman who will be worth marrying, settle down etc. But I am young, don't know if that is how it will go.


Funny thing is, she hears these views and the girl usually sticks around. It's like I hang a sign up saying "don't fall for me" yet these beautiful creatures can't help themselves and try to win me over....interesting way how things work.

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Interesting theory on women falling in love based on compliance and men falling in love based on investment. Do not completely agree, but I am open to hearing more on it. Lately she has been chasing, calling me everyday, 40 minute conversation.


I have upped the ante though for our next meet. I told her that we will be doing more than cuddling, she was of course all like "eh idk about all that" to which I responded "we will see". I told her that the next time we kiss, my hands are going to travel all over her body.


Later she texted me "wish we could cuddle". I reminded her we will be doing more than thT. Last night she called me and I cut her short because I can't deal with 40 minute convos everyday. I told her I wanted to go to bed early...but in reality I wanted to watch a show and just relax. I am grateful to have you guys to keep me grounded though.

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