I have no game at all. I suck, I'm beginning to think im ugly or something. Although I dont think I am, I have always thought of myself as attractive. To put an image into yalls head of what I look like; I work at a bank and all the time people tell me that I look like Marco Rubio. He's not bad looking right? But idk let me tell yall what I'm struggling with. I'm in a fraternity. The largest one there is; I'm one of the top 3 men in power structure for the fraternity as well. I think I'm good looking but that should carry some weight in getting girls right? Anyhow I lost my confidence after going to this huge fraternity party/concert yesterday. There were so many girls there! So many! Blondes my favorites. However; i failed to even get one number; I failed to even mack it to this one girl who I had previously made out with awhile back who is our school's homecoming queen. I never made it further than making out with her and that was 3 months ago. I was also rejected a lot on the dance floor, I think some of it has to do with a lot of girls having boyfriends but I was clueless seeing how I had drank an entire handle of jack daniels. I made no progress in a huge opportunity. This happens constantly to me. A few things to note about myself, I have a rather stiff personality, I come out maybe once a week due to work and schoolwork. However; I just dont get what I'm doing wrong, I dont understand girls, I'm horrible. I have no gameplan ever; I always say I'll wing it and you know guys get lucky. I never do; granted I dont come out much. I do have a stiff personality, but I make a huge effort with girls but the same thing always happens, after a few minutes of talking to me; the girl walks off with her friends, the classic "I'll be back, I'm going to go talk to some friends". I'm a mess, please someone hit me with some advice.

Start drinking less and learning more. You have a lot of material on these forums at your fingertips. You don't go out too much so why not take a half hour to read up on some material ? Learn something. You sound like my roommate, cynical, easy to get depressed after each rejection .


I will tell you what I told him. Stop bitching, get to the gym, feel better about yourself, and keep pushing. He has been on a four month dry spell.

Know what happened, it took two weeks of me telling him to stop bitching , and he got laid last weekend, and he got laid yesterday from the same chick. Take the same advice, stop feeling sorry for yourself and make yourself better. Stop bitching about this one concert where you couldn't score a chick in a field full of chick. You are young, you are in a fraternity, there will be more parties more pussy to come in your future.

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