Hi.
I am leed, 31 years old, and a virgin.

I have serious problem with girls, exactly with my mind.

I have thought long time all realations with girls are useless unless I marry her.

So, I lost many chance about developing my skill to seduce girl.

But, when I was 21 years old, I found myself fall in love with the 'S' girl.
I met her in my college.

She also know I like her and so, she gave me chance but I didn't know to do and lack of confidence.

I failed seduce her and that is make me crazy and ruin me.

Still, I thought S everyday, and love her.

So last 7-8 years, I look for every mind-book and read all.

New-ages, channels, conversation with god, etc...

But still I feel lonely and with no girlfriend. Cuz I love S so much and I can't give my mind to other girl.

Recently, I know about PUA world, and read 2 book. The game and Perfect seducer.

I think my ultimate target is still her and all this is for her.

I know still S don't marry other guy.

I try to contact with S but she scared me and dont want to meet me.

I know I bring about all this situation.

But I still like her.....

What must I do? This is big problem to me.

Help plz.

1. Get rid of everything that reminds you of her. Delete her number, emails everything! Burn it, kill it. I did it with some girls, burned photos, rubbish like that. Get rid of it, shes wasted energy in your mind.

2. Your room or your home, is your center point inspiration where you retire to, it has to show the right signals to other people coming in and to you, it has to be a place of clear thought. A place where you can work, exercise, sit, think, breathe, have sex, and feel the air. It needs a fresh sense. If your room/home is not right your not right in your head. Make sure its always maintained.

Women dye their hair after they brake up with men to forget about them faster. We clean our room, put up posters that inspire you! go out, and write a schedule of things to do in a week, when you will dedicate time for your health such as working out, and when you will to women and friends, whatever. Write Monday to Sunday. Put it up on your wall, you can change it later.

3. Once its down, start going out, follow your schedule and meet people, make friends. Change your life, what's past is past, who cares you can't change it. 30 years old is ok, you have time, get up and make the change. Now! listen to good music, have fun!

3 basic steps. Follow them!


Listen to music that relaxes you, here is my favourite.

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

leed, This is not healthy.
She is not the one. She is not special. Your mind is playing tricks on you because you are lonely.
Wait, stop reading for a second and write that down, in big letters, and stick it over your bed.
Now, I want you to go ot tonight.
And no, I don't want you to bang a dozen chicks(that's the advanced class).
I just want you to go to every bar you can, and note how many girls you like PHYSICALLY.
Now, do this every night for the next week.
After the week, I want you to look at the number of beautiful women you've seen.
Are you willing ton say that there's not one girl, out of all them who's as good as or better than her?
If you are, to be frank, you're an idiot.
There are millions of amazing women out there you can have a great time with. S is not your special flower, and you have scared her off. Impact is right. Burn that bridge, because she's burned the bridge years ago.

If you're still obsessing over her, and this doesn't help, get professional help. Impact's laid out a skeleton of a gameplan, now you have to flesh it out and rebuild your life.

You only get one life man, don't waste it obsessing.

Now why are you still reading, MOVE!
Negsta.

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He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man.
He who makes a PUA out of himself accentuates the pleasure.

Very thanks to you 2 men.

I really feel thanksful emotion.

And yes, I will try that all advice and start to live a other life.

That music make me a little sorrow but relax too.