I have experienced things similar, my friends quite hot and she always gets bombarded. This is just showing me the mindset of guys and how to separate myself both online/offline. It's made me think the amount of emails I'm getting wow how did I event get pussy in the first place lol

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There was some YouTube video a while back needs to be put in the sticky, with some black guy talk about cheating on a weird way it sums this whole thing up. A guys if he cheats it's only because of greed, it's nothing personal just detached greed in most cases. But when a girl cheats it's deep because it's not based on freed it's on a deeper level, it's because she CHOSE to cheat. He mentions the same way a guy has to work to get the pussy is what she's doing and is saying he's a better man than you. However a guy can cheat but doesn't mean he likes the girl at all.