I haven't been calibrated with myself lately because of a recent cancer scare turning me into a mega afc. Met a person at the gym i volunteer at. Went from us hanging out in a couple social gatherings to a couple dates. Had a few lol's and some kino going. Went for a kclose and she ended up freaking out while I laughed it off. Sent me a text saying I have been too touchy and if I try that again she won't be my friend. Told her I respected that and froze her out immediately.

3 weeks later (yesterday),she comes to the gym. Immediately try to initiate contact in front of everyone by telling me she saw me over there. I brushed it off and told her "so" gave her 5 and continued my workout. Then after class she was just hanging around expecting me to talk to her. Would try to pretend to fight me. Kept on teasing me about the drills but I didn't pay her any attention. My focus is to get back in shape really. It even turned akward because I knew she kept trying to be in my viewpath. She got frustrated and decided to leave. I turn around as I was doing my sprints and just waved while she just waved back.

Come tonight, a friend told me she announced her new afc bf(don't have her added but i know shes seen mine)on fb. I've made it clear I want her and will stick to my guns. All or nothing. My question is, How can I turn this situation to make it even more beneficial then just spinning multiple plates. I have the upper hand I suspect. What would you guys do?

Just keep sarging. She'll come back again when she realises she's missing out

I figured that. First time this happened since being sick so it's been a little hard to get out of my head and not over think things. .

Doesnt sound like she was romantically interested. If you went to a couple of "dates" and went for a kiss and she freaked out, thats a sign she didnt see them as dates. Sounds like she wants attention, so you could probably mention other girls, ignore her, tease her and somehow turn that into interest. I won't though

Yes I definitely felt that vibe after all this.

Either way, I really don't care about the outcome of it but want to try this experience to refine myself. Usually I would agree to being friends but for the first time I actually was going for the emotional ride of all or nothing. I've got to grow up and this is the right moment for it lol

Yea, just game other girls for now if you don't want to be friends with her. After a couple weeks or so, when you have preselection and she sees you with other girls, you can start from scratch with her if you like and game her properly. I would actually use her as a pivot in social gatherings and get other girls. I prefer having as much girls in my social circle as possible and make things easier when opening new girls or have them introduce me to their hot friends.

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Pretty much the story of my life. Could not have gave better advice than this.

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Thanks everyone.

Do nothing and just make yourself more awesome seams to be the general consensus. That's easier then most since I'm rebuilding what is mine. People forgot who I was before all this madness but I will use this opportunity to hit them back harder

She just announced a new boyfriend on Facebook bro..

She's flirting with you for fun, all while she's sucking some other dick. I won't even pay her any mind. Not even sure why you want her to be honest.

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Thanks.

It's the only choice I have after loosing a nut to live. Everyone has noticed how "energized" I've been lately plus I've upgraded everything I own.

Last night she kept trying to tease and enter into my convos with other people. I was cool but it's getting rather annoying since now my training mates are noticing it. Went as far as tried to divert my attention when doing my footwork drills just to say "so focused" (Didn't even bother aknowledging that dumb ass remark) before she left. I'm at the point were Im going to tell her touch it or not just to be able to workout in peace lol.