this is really anoyin me and its ruining my confidence .. i dont know how but its dragging me down... k here goesss


When i go out and drink i mean a good bit now not tipsy or half cut but a decent amount i can game a girl with easy the convo just flows and the chemistry is just there ... but when im sober the next day or maybe a few days later and i try to talk to them i have no idea of what to talk about ... i choke i dont know what to say none of the material is comin to me .... this is bugging me i cant take it .. am i gonna have to get outa my head stoned everytime i go to meet a girl or what ?this has happened countless times... any advice is more than appreciated..



Thank You
John

Hey how we all doing?

First off it is all in your head if you can talk to her while your drunk then while your sober you should be amazing.

This is not the case as you let the evidence of your life say that it is impossible. Nothing is impossible the root of your issue is that you cannot let loose and relax when your sober thus your confidence and improvisional skills are lacking.

How do we fix this? We fix this through practice with socializing in all aspects of life. Get other fun things hobbies, events etc so that you are always enjoying yourself and have lots to discuss.

If you want it you can have it, everything good takes effort!

ChowforNow,

the--------------------------------------->Saint

"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I dont know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, reenergize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

^ agree