I've been on POF and OkCupid for five years and Match for one.. I'm also on datehookup and christiandating4free but those two are desolate.. After all this time spent on online "dating" I've had very very few dates that I'd consider enjoyable and a total of 0 relationships.. I'm at the point now where it's not even fun or exciting for me to message women.. It just feels like drudgery.. Like a creative writing English assignment from my school days, it's depressing. To be honest I'd rather just get better at approaching, but this is a struggle in it's own right... To those of you who have success with online dating what do you think it is about your profile/messages that get responses and lead to dates?

Go outside. Talk to real girls. Say Hi.

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I've tried it! They just say high back and give me a tight lipped smile!

Try harder. Accept that you have to talk to about 50 girls to get 1 date, just like you will have to message 50 girls to get one date on a dating website.

But you don't listen to us anyway.

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You tried how many times? twice?

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Have you ever been successful? You see to have low self-esteem & confidence.

After saying Hi, they look back, and you immediately look at your feet?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I have no idea the amount of times I've approached and said "hi".. More than twice.. Probably more than 50..

As far as me ever being "successful".. I have more money than most people my age, make more an hour, and am in great shape so despite experiencing success to some degree I'd be hesitant to label myself successful.. I wouldn't know if they look back or not.. I don't.

This was posted a while back You're just a useless at life aren't you?

It seems that you think you're attractive because you have money but you don't have any spare to spend on someone that could probably help you.

Strippers don't make the best of therapists but you still spent a small fortune to fuck your own head up. At least you have stopped this strip clubbing money throwing and you've lost your virginity finally...but regarding approaching girls...

You have done about 2/3 approaches and pretty much conjectured that it doesn't work, that's like lifting a barbell 3 times and saying that gym doesn't work because you're not big yet.

I have said time and time again. Nail the field and then the online game becomes a play ground. NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND.

You sir, are wasting this forum's time and finger energy.

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I love it when dedicated members go back and review old posts from OPs.

Why post here if you're just looking to get the advice you want to hear, OP? I just don't get it.

I don't get online game. The one thing you can do to stand out, not just from guys online but all guys, is to have balls and approach. How do you possibly show balls on a dating site? You're then down to looks and occupation and all that shit which limit you when (and only when) you don't have balls.

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People are being a little harsh here. If I posted this thread, I'd have gotten some golden advice. So would most people who replied. It's just that this guy has a reputation (his own fault) as a guy who doesn't listen.

1. Get phone - online game without a phone is fucking HARD

2. Get Tinder - I'd say about 60% of my online "situations" with girls, are from Tinder. Literally weekly lays about 6-12 months ago, as you already know. When you're using Tinder, you're ONLY talking to girls who think you're hot. Imagine how much easier it is when the only girls you're gaming are the ones who you already know think you're sexy!?

3. Take the "I'd like a woman who can take charge and wear the pants" shit out of your fucking profile. It's disgusting. Women are horrified by men of lower value than them, such as men who can't be a man and make their own decisions so they have to get their girlfriend to play mommy.

4. Find an opener and just spam it to every fucking girl on every website. RSDJeffy has some good ones.

5. Set at least 2 days every week where you can approach at least 15-20 girls in real life (I'll get on a plane and punch you in the throat if you make an excuse on this shit - fucking do it)

6. Come back here and tell us what happened.

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You just can't be ugly man lol.

Get out the house. 5 years on a dating site with no success is ridicules. Its taken you this long to realize you need to brush up on your game?

Come on bro. Delete those shits until you get your social skills together.

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Here is the simple equation. Don't use pics you think you look good in. Ask a few girls to look at your pics and decide on a few. Or get professional ones that make you look very important or exciting.

Heres the harsh reality of running game in america

tall inshape + money = guys get laid the most
tall inshape + no money = still getting laid
not tall + money or important person = getting laid
not tall + no money = you gotta make changes to one of those factors or completely change up where you run game

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Show some sexual intention. Keep the interaction going.

At least they aren't giving you the "ughhh!" Face.....