So basically I broke up with my girlfriend about 5 months ago and all of a sudden I am getting deep feelings for her again smh I fucked up by texting her saying i miss her and shit then she started saying how her new boyfriend will fuck me up for texting her blah blah, I got mad and started acting like a tough guy (my mistake) and her boyfriend replied threatening me and tried to fight me and he pissed me off...so he told me to come to his house if i wanted to fight him, i did, I was outside his house for an hour I didnt think he expected me to show up he stayed inside and i was calling him out and he wouldnt come out...so I left then he asked me to come back that he was loading his shotgun (LOL) anyways....I still texted her after that wanting her back and shit and she kept on saying don't talk to me....it serves me right since I left her and i was being a huge asshole to her bf so I sent her friend a huge apology/goodbye text to send to my ex when shes alone since she obviously doesnt want anything to do with me....long story short I need to get my mind clear and off this chick so I need places I can go to practice game daily and get a new chick please help sorry for pointless ex gf rant lmao

Get to work bro.

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So... Basically stop being a whiny bitch and get out of your house's door. There is plenty of single women without shotguns out there...

my problem is finding places to go things to do stuff like that I have a pretty solid group of friends we go to partys occasionally but its not enough for me i need to be able to do something to practice everyday

That's what the forum is for, to connect you to other people on the same path

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You really just need to go wherever are girls. I dunno where you live, but there will be malls etc. there as well, right?

Even if you live in one of those small towns that only have a barber shop, two restaurants, three gas stations, one hotel and a host of saloons, there are plenty of places to meet women at all hours of the day.

Go out, you see a cute girl, talk to her about something. Maybe the two of you will connect.

Agreed, but

The demographics/geography is the easiest default excuse to the typical defeatist. They always seem to think their situation is unique and impossible.

Women are everywhere. If you live in a small town, there is a city near by that you could move to or travel to.

I see it everywhere on this forum, also race card excuse.

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Agreed b/c that is the precise point of my posting.

The loading my shotgun line was hilarious.

Bro,

You know what to do man. Leave the girl alone and get back out there. Theres tinder, okcupid, pof, match, bars, nightclubs, book stores, streets, malls, cafes etc. etc.

With all of these mediums there is no reason any semi attractive guy should be hung up on one girl for too long. A week on any of those sites or a week of approaching and you'll have a 3-5 girls lined up and ready to go.

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No offense, but you have some serious anger management/inner game issues that sound like they're as important or more important that you need to work on.

Stop being so damn emotional. Trying to act all tough will only have you looking like an asshole and will make things worse, and not better.

And if you need places to talk to girls? ANYWHERE.

A store in the mall
Join a zumba class
Go out to a bar or nightclub
Any busy place in your area really

Most guys, myself included, are not prepared to meet girls wherever they are at all times. You're anywhere, a cute girl comes by, open her (giving myself advice at the same time lol).

We've all been through this journey in one way or the other in our own way. Minus maybe having to deal with shotguns.

I mean if you broke up with her, you broke up with for a reason. Simple as that. Sure you miss her, that is natural. But you should only stay with a girl that you are absolutely gaga over and never would question breaking up with her. Wanting to get back to her is coming from a place of lonliness and filling your void, versus a true sense of fullfillment with the other person.

Moving on, you know what you need to do. Where do you live? Personally I take for granted I live in a big city and pretty much "could" game everyday. Having said that when you have a solid rotation of girls. And busy with your business life this becomes not necessary or possible to a certain degree.

I have friends who live in the outskirts of the city and just drive into the city say once a week. And they have progressed amazingly. So gaming daily is great if you can do it, but not always possible. The question is what did they do with their time in betwen the time you could game? Work on the other aspects that constitute game. So when you're not gaming Read / Watch gaming videos. Work out (As it will help your self confidence), practice visualization. And when you go out make a list of things you want to improve on and push yourself. So when it comes game time your always pushing your limit. You're breaking down game into chunks and components.

It's like if you were a boxer and couldn't always make it to the gym to spar and improve against live opponents. Plenty of other things you can do to make sure you progress everytime you go on sparring days. Work on your shadow boxing or heavy bag it at home. Improve your cardio and strength and conditioning. So all the components that surround sparring have improved.

Good Luck on your journey.

P.S. Best way to get a girlfriend back. Make her jealous with all the other chicks who want you. So go game, get lots of chicks. Post it on your Instragram and make sure she sees it

This is where I search deep inside for a nice way to tell you to "get a life!"

Go out and do some shit dude. Get some hobbies. Make yourself an interesting person. You'll meet people naturally.

Bit manipulative if you ask me, but I can't deny it wouldn't work though.

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