Hi guys,

When I decided to have this type of lifestyle I knew I'd met a girl who will change me. A girl who will make me see the rest of the girls unattractive.

Recently I lost a girl due to buyer's remorse. Since then I see the rest of the girls differently. Like never before. When I am talking to beautiful girls I feel no pressure no emotion, nothing. I see them as I see my 5 years cousin. Little naive insecure creatures with personality problems.
Now I see them kinda..vulnerable and desperate for help but with their own proud and self-importance which make me to lose lot of interest in them.

Before I met this chick , whenever I talked to a beautiful girl I felt enthusiasm, excitement, arousal. But now, nothing.

Now I'm wandering.... " Is this a good thing what happened to me? Or is it bad for my game ? "

Firstly I thought .. Well this may be good because I have no expectations from the interaction and I really don't care about the result because I really don't feel the need of her.
On the other hand.. Now I have no stimulus, no impulse to make me go to the next level. Now I have no reason to work and obtain a girl because I see them as I said.

So what do you thing?

I regret so much that this special girl got the buyer's remorse... But.. This maybe helped me somehow..

Sounds like a pleasantly written form of oneitus

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No. It is not an oneits because at this moment I don't care about her. I have no feelings for her.

I just regret the buyer's remorse happened because we got along very well.

I got over her.

'You've got over her...'

So you've made a thread that you're missing someone you haven't even slept with...

Previous thread, assuming same girl?
general-questions/buyer-remorse-any-sol ... 93325.html Are you just going to keep making duplicate threads until you get an answer you want to hear?

Same virgin girl? post930442.html#p930442

She is still a virgin and you're still making threads about the same girl. You still think it's not oneitus? You've got answers to your threads. You haven't even thanked anybody nor took the advice on board, you are now regurgitating the same thread and starting a new threads about the same girl only worded differently

Look man, you are dealing with a virgin. It is pretty much all down on her terms (like we've already told you), so you can keep making oneitus threads, or you can keep chasing women and obtain the skill and if she decides to want to lose her virginity to you, she will contact you to hang out. Meanwhile, read my sig thread.

You deluded people test my patience. Do you not know there is a search post history feature?

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Look man, this topic is about me, not her. Trust me, I know my feelings and I don't have a crush on her.

She was just the first girl I felt close since I broke up with my girlfriend almost a year ago so that's why I wanted to keep her around me.

I just wanted to know if seeing girls as filthy vulnerable childish helpless over emotionally piece of meat with personality problems and daddy issues is normal. If you can't give me a proper answer at this question is ok, let someone who can to answer me. Just think about your newbie period and put in my shoes. How wold you feel if you were me? Curious? Dizzy? Disoriented?

I wouldn't lie to myself that this isn't oneitus

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If she would really be an oneitus. Good. Neither would I.

I agree with it being oneitis.

This is a phase, it will pass.

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I get what you're asking lol

Look man, you're going to have all different "mind fucks" happen to you that are going to change the way you feel about women. You will eventually settle on a way of thinking (find yourself sexually) and that's when success with women will feel "easy" to you.

Keep it up.

Thanks man. I hope it's a phase. I'll let you know if it ends or if it persists.