I've been talking to a girl for 5 days now, we've been out for a walk and things are pretty good. I just matched with her best friend on Tinder. I'm convinced that they've planned this to see what I'll do / how I'll react. What the hell do I do here? Haha

i don't understand

You think her friend on Tinder is her bf with a fake profile? What makes you say this?

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I think he means he matched her best friend not boyfriend. I won't message her or talk to her. It may be accidental but if they are best friends theyll realize whats up.

Also, please do not use Tinder for WALKS. If this is the chick from the other thread, decide if you're willing to lose that for the friend. Plus she's going away in a couple days. Stop putting all this mental masturbation in for a chick you walked with and is going away tomorrow. You gotta move on

Hey Dragula.

You're spot on with what you said. So what I'm thinking now is just being direct with both of them and trying to keep the power on my side. Here's what I'm thinking, copying them both into a facebook message and saying;

Right girls, I've made a decision and it's final, no beating around the bush;

Girl 1: We went out for a walk and that's great. But I invited you to mine and you weren't interested, you're going away for 2 months, then when you come back you're off to Europe. After that there's a high chance you'll be moving away for work. So let's be honest, nothing's going to happen, so let's hot the nail on the head and call it a day.

Girl 2: I'm still unsure whether you matched to test me, but if you actually like me, awesome, lets go for it. If not, that's cool, I'll move on and find someone else, no harm done

Bear in mind, I deal with girl 2 through work a handfull of times each year.

What do you guys think, good or bad? Any suggestions?

Cheers.

Another thought regarding the above post, is it a good idea to copy them both into the message, or message them individually?

i dont understand? you think they are testing you forrrrr????,


man, just try to date and have sex with both of them, but if you've got some go to moves or lines or dates or whatever, maybe don;t use it on both of them lol

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I think the one I was taking to got her friend to swipe right and match so she could see how I'd react. If I was going to be a decent guy, or try and play both of them.

I've ditched the first one now anyway, that was going nowhere and now going for the second one.

I think Tinder works a little different where I am, as it's a small town of 10,000 people and almost everybody knows eachother, you can't get away with banging different chickS every day. I think it's more relationship focused than one night stands.

Do you honestly think this will work? Friends (Especially girls) just don't do this. Even if you were a really charming guy, why would girls #2 just date you after you have just made things awkward withgirls #1 ?

What if you fall in love with girl #2 and get invited to the girl #1's wedding?

Hoes before bros is the same as Bros before hoes

Just get swiping bro, stop worrying about it being perfect, girls are also dating other guy's despite being on a date with you, perhaps even messaging your friends.

It happens a lot in big social circles with guys dating each other's ex's but this is just a frigging dating app and you have only held hands with her lol

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Don't send this shit. This is logical as fuck. Instead game both of them and it is that much easier to get one or the other.

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