The Cure to Onitis - Becoming More Attractive

This article was long over due.

To many guys out there trying to figure out how to get a particular girl they’ve been friends with for a while.

What part of you’re friends don’t you understand?

You’ve been friend zoned.

Now fear not, there is a way to get out of it.

The problem lies in your inability to grow.

In her eyes you’re the same guy you’ve always been, doing the same things you’ve always done

And you are probably not a “player” or “good at attracting and seducing” women, because if you were, you wouldn’t be asking this stupid fucking question. LOL. Just messing with ya bud, relax and hear me out

We all start somewhere.

I’ve always been mad at the truth…. Because the truth is so fucked up for some of us, but if you look deeper than the truth you will see a layer of “bullshit” and underneath the bullshit you will discover what it means to be human, and being human is recognizing the game we are playing.

How can you effectively play the game without knowing what game you are playing?

But that is another topic of discussion, we all seem to want that answer but what if there was no answer, what if the answer is simply living to the best of your ability.

Connecting with others and putting the pieces to the puzzle together.

Now enough jibber jabber, lets put some pieces together right now

I get hippy sometimes, but thoughts are good for the mind, don’t get boxed up like all the other irrelevant fuck toys. Yes, I too choose to be ignorant sometimes. Is how I choose to play the game.


As far as getting out of the friend zone, what you have to do is “BE BETTER”. Ah’ one of my favorite lines from a great guru. “BE BETTER MOTHERFUCKER”

How can you be better?

By becoming more attractive. How can you become more attractive to girls?

Man that cannot get any more simpler.

Is so easy, even a caveman could do it.

But most guys are out here asking a different question

They narrow it down to a specific situation, and they want a specific action and a specific move, how fucking dumb is that?

LOOK AT THE BIGGER PICTURE
The bigger picture is, you can’t get girls at all, why try to get ONE girl, if you can’t even get girls.

Say for example you were to get that one girl, you’d most definitely fuck that up and then what?

Back again asking stupid questions.

Is that the type of life you want to live?

Or do you want to flip to the other side of the coin, and become that attractive guy who “gets” girls,

who most definitely wouldn’t be here asking stupid questions.

My answer is BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE, BECOME BETTER.

Don’t become better for her, become better for yourself.

Oh… the power… THE POWER YOU WILL HAVE.

Girls will flock to your sense of entitlement, one word out of you’re mouth and they are YOURS.

Fuck the hippy shit.

Peaceout, namaste bitches
Staymeditating


-Dtrak

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Hi. Just sharing my thoughts so it might not be related to your post. So bear with me if you must.

The reason many people are still stuck on one itis, IMO, are the emotions they are affiliated with for years. I mean no matter how good of an advice they get, they won't be changing until they themselves don't feel the need to change (which one itis guys don't). And they don't feel the need because they've attached their emotions to that one itis cindrella belief. Simply put, you can't convince a one itis to have an abundant mentality until he's had that 'bad experience'. I wish and hope I am wrong but that's how I've seen people to be (even myself). The regret of "what if I had known this earlier" always remains somewhat. I hope this post can change some one before he's had that 'bad experience'.

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You're totally right, funny thing is even when you know what the right thing to do is sometimes you can get caught up in emotions, shit it happened to me and it was hilarious i was trumpled and at the same time thinking shit why am i doing this, good thing about being aware is you get over it super fast and do what you gota do to get over it, which is being better and moving on.

And over time you get better so i believe the earlier you start self development the better, because is a journey of awakening your true masculine potential and creating a sex life you never in you're wildest dreams thought you were capable of creating.

Possibilities are endless as far as the type of hot girls you can get.

Guys shouldnt have to suffer from it, they should be empowered, but of course they gota get off their ass and become attractive. Thats pretty easy, if you will.

Problem with most guys is, they wana stay bitchmade and get girls like that. Shit if it was like that everyone would be a piece of shit. Why do anything ? lmao.

90% of guys will read this and go back to being a loser and begging to one girl. The other 10% will read this, get their shit together and become a fucking monster, get laid a ton and make the baddest chick their girlfriend.

Question is, which guy are you going to be

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Totally Agreed. Those 90% are the ones who become PUA haters and feminists.

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god i hate onitis. theres only a few things that cure it. 1) other fucking women 2) Time.

Time and experience will help you the most. i can't tell you how many girls i had onitis over years and years ago, just to look back on them with almost zero emotion. sometimes I'm like "i actually liked that dumb broad?" lol.

the other cure is women women women. seriously, i recently met a girl who i developed a little crush on. i am just out of a LTR and got cuddly with this girl at a nightclub but didn't close. it bugged me and i started to put her on a pedestal. then a week later, i met a hotter girl and then the week after that i met an even hotter one. now looking back at girl #1, I'm like "WHAT THE HELL? you actually wanted that chick? hahaha"

so yeah….MORE WOMEN, and TIME. just remember all your old crushes from high school and college, do you even have any bit of feelings for them still? probably not….always more fish in the sea.