Classic Pussy One-itis story here, somewhat, so bear with me

I'll keep it short.
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1. Spent a lot of time with girl.

2. About a year, and have "fallen for her" i also understand i'm 19 so i'm sure i could be just caught in a childish love since this is just the best i have felt with a girl yet.

3. We have done a lot of camping, a lot of trips, and spent a decent amount of time together.

4. Her parent's are divorced, so i'm sure she get's it from this, but; she doesn't believe in relationships, or marriage. She finds relationships selfish. And thinks that people shouldn't get married because there is so much divorce.

5. I however really like this girl. She's a cute blond, we connect deeply, i enjoy all the time i spend with her.

6. I really want to be in a relation ship with this girl. I'm worried about expressing it because i don't want to push her away.

7. It hurts me emotionally when i see her flirt with other guys <-- I know this is not good, and i'm also spending a lot of time to work on myself to the point where that doesn't bother me, because i know it shouldn't.

Do you guys think this is something she will probably move past since she's only 18? Or should i be the one to just move on?

I have a high emotionally attachment as you can probably tell, so that's why i wanted some outside advice on this.

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#1. Time doing want? being all friendsy?

#2. Age is irrelevant. If you're in love at 14 who am I to tell you otherwise? What you feel is what you feel.

#3. Same questions as #1.

#4. Divorce may have left a few scars, but that means nothing when the right guy comes along.

#5. "We" or "I"? Because "we" implies mutuality, and were these feelings mutual you probably wouldn't be here posting a topic about her.

#6. Did you ever kiss her? had sex?

#7. Understandable. It's fine since you're working on that. No one performs 180's overnight.

Move past what? Not wanting a relationship? Dude, people don't want relationships for the most various reasons in the world. And as I've mentioned, age has nothing to do with it. Are you hoping she'll grow out of it? your standard of reality and how "things should be" can be different from hers. Maybe there's nothing to move past, or maybe there is. Just don't assume "normal", whatever your definition of that may be, applies to everyone.

I don't know the nature / intimacy level between the two of you. Try providing those details, they're relevant.

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#1,2, 6 : We have sex on and off starting two months ago. Like once or twice a week, then a few weeks off, and back and forth, and then four weeks ago she didn't want to have it with me because she didn't want me to only want her for that. She completely stopped it for those two weeks. But i just increased my kino way more intense, and she couldn't help it. So now we are having sex again. She also use to never want to sleep over because she thought it was too much of a relationship thing, although in the past 3 weeks, she slept over for the first time twice.

I havn't actually brought the idea of a relationship up to her because when we started having sex she use to tell me that she really wanted to make sure i wouldn't get feelings, and clingly etc. I have though, i guess i'm just not sure if i should tell her, and that's a more of what i'm trying to get figured out here.

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Is the sex any good? for her I mean.


Anyway, look, if you ever want a relationship you don't sit her down and ask her to be your girlfriend, unless you're in midschool.
A relationship is developed first and agreed upon later, not the other way around. So do things couples do with her. Cook, go on dates, have her spend nights, share quality time together, all that. Then, unless she truly is emotionally unavailable, she will give you the "so what are we" talk sooner rather than later.

Your job is to take the action and lead things in the direction you want them to go, not to talk about the direction you want them to go. Unless she starts that conversation.

So if your dilemma is whether or not you should vomit your feelings towards her, then no, you most definitely should not.

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This is simple..

The more emotionally attached you are, the less emotionally attached she'll be. The more you want to tie her down, the less she'll want to be tied down.

Ask her if she's ever had her heart broken. And how long have you known her? She could be fresh out of something and just expressing her feeling and emotions for the moment. Almost all things are subject to change with women. They follow the strongest leadership in front of them in the moment.

It all comes down to what you're willing to stick around for. If you'll still stick around despite not getting what you want from her why would she give you what you want? Now if you were willing to walk away, and she's into you, she'd be willing to do what its going to take to get you to stay.

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