Hey, something's been on my mind for quite a while, before I started my journey as a PUA and before I devoted my life to self development in all aspects of my life, I used to be kind of an asshole. I didn't like myself very much, was very emotional when reacting to negative outcomes, my behavior sometimes was sometimes self-destructive, I didn't hate myself but, I'm sure glad to look back and think how glad I am to not be the same person I was a year ago. My friends which I haven't interacted with for a while keep telling me how I've changed, so I just state out the obvious and say - I know. So before I get even more off-topic, I've started to notice that the more narcissistic my mindset becomes the less of an asshole I am, far from being a suck-up nice guy, I like to challenge people, I definitely set boundaries for every single person I interact with, always assume A&A (Attraction & Authority), stepped out a mile out of my comfort zone, I'm pretty immune to negative outcomes, I basically don't give a sh.. about what people think about me. I'm the kind of person who's very giving, comforting and who takes pity upon those who need it, or the ones I offend with my sometimes overwhelming arrogance/confidence. Again, don't confuse me with your typical AFC nice guy ass licking approval seeking schmuck. But here's my sticking point - I often times find my self not gaming certain girls, just because they seem genuinely nice and I don't want to break there hearts even though I can tell that they're very much into me. After reading the book "Assholes finish first" by Tucker Max, I envied not only his legendary confidence but also his lack for kindness towards other human beings, I tried to give 0 f.... about the well-being of others, didn't suit me and would just often times leave me with regret. So my question for you, what do you recommend me to do in-order to care less about others, at least to the point where I wouldn't feel resistance gaming girls who I know like me, but I know I'll never like them (at least for more than their body), thanks in advance,

-Alergy.

First suggestion, learn how to write more effectively.

Second suggestion, based on your post... you're looking to not give a fuck anymore like Tucker Max?

Let me explain to you how that's done. Because it's really not as easy as saying to yourself "I don't give a fuck anymore."

The reason you sense that Tucker Max doesn't give a fuck is because he's got a bigger objective in life in mind. He doesn't have time to care about peoples feelings or opinions.

It's not that he doesn't want to care. He doesn't have time to care.

Most people only "care" about other peoples opinions or feelings when they've got time to sit around thinking about them. So, make yourself too busy to give a fuck.

No, not looking to become an asshole like Tucker Max, I think that was pretty obvious when I said "at least to the point where I wouldn't feel resistance gaming girls who I know like me".

Yeah, he does have a big mission in life, as so do I, and believe me you're saying complete gibberish that keeping yourself distracted will keep you unaffected by such emotions as guilt. It has more to do with putting your needs ahead of others, what I tend to do, because I'm #1 in my world, but leaving people broken hearted just because I wanted to get laid is something that is completely over the top for me. No, not because I have "too much free time", I can assure you of that, it has more to do with having different morals which has completely no similarity with your so called "advice"..

Good to know that you have some morals and care for others. But you have to understand that you cant make everyone happy. Some one's going to get offended/hurt by you one way or the other.
As for "not breaking a girl's heart who likes you", be honest with her. Make your intentions clear to her that you just want her for sex. And if she still likes you, then its not on you if she gets hurt in future. You did all you could to "not hurt".

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Don't get confused by my username. I am not Bald.

Clearly not. If you're putting other peoples thoughts and opinions towards you over getting what you want out of life, that's not true at all. You're just saying that to yourself.

Apparently your mission isn't important enough to you if you're distracted by what other people think.

I'm not trying to argue with you man lol I'm just point out what I see because you asked.

"Style981" Awesome advice on making my intentions clear, if she begins to get attached I can't be the one to blame because I was honest from the start and she knew the end result right from the beginning, I'm sure going to try this out in the field.

"TheMajikalMethod.com" you make a solid point, other people shouldn't have the power to deny you from your mission, but I love myself for who I am, I have a ton of confidence due to the fact that everything I do - I think is right and is unquestionable, even to me. When I defy my morals I end up with the feeling of regret and acting as if I wasn't the same person, which not only reduces the confidence in my self, questions my beliefs, but also reduces confidence in all of my actions but also has a negative affect on my game in the long-run, I transform from a well-grounded person to a someone who has lost his identity. It's obvious that only seeking advice to not become a person who is driven by disrespect towards women and self-hatred, no. I'm doing this so I can perfect my game WITHOUT ending up questioning my morals, having a blast, staying true to myself and of course being honest, genuine. Call me crazy, but that's just the way I roll.