Hey there,

Just need a feedback from fellow peeps, I'll try to keep this story short.

So I have a coworker I knew for 2 years now and we are both around our mid twenties in an office environment. Around last year, we went out for a while and got intimate.

Suddenly she broke it off with me and said she wants to live a little/have fun and don't want anything serious just yet and possibly in the future. So I did No Contact and told her that we can be coworkers but not platonic friends and if she any interest in the future, she can contact me.

I held true to my word to this day and only interacted with her as a coworker. Respecting space but being polite at the same time at work. After we went back to coworkers, about a month and a half later she got a boyfriend and I got into other relationships.

About 2 or 3 months ago she broke up with the boyfriend and recently I noticed that she is initiating contact to me at work. When she was dating the boyfriend, I was basically a ghost to her at that time period. Slowly I saw that she started saying hello to me every morning, she always starts initiating a conversation over messaging about topics like raving, funny memes, gossip around the office etc. Apparently my stupid cheesy humor is getting to her. More recently, if I send her something witty/stupid back over messenger, I hear her giggling.(btw she sits next to me). Also she sometimes asks where we should go for lunch with one or two coworkers but mainly she just tries to talk to me most of the time. Also she just randomly asks me questions or once in a while jumps into conversations that I am having with my coworkers that also sit with us.

Besides more recent interactions in the office, nothing else much happened outside of work. We are kind of planning of going to an event together later but I am pretending to be indecisive to go at the moment.

What do you guys think on this matter? Personally I would very much like to get back with her and I think some signs are coming back. It does feel like she is doing most of the chasing in her end. I could be wrong so what do you guys think on this matter? Any feedback would be appreciated!

'Let's grab a drink together sometime?'

If she says yes, meets and let's you kiss her = she likes you
If she says no = she doesn't like you

I find it really strange that you turned down her offer of casual sex...surely that would be better than nothing at all?

Girls at work though. Big no no for me personally. Recently, a girl who I work with who is in a LTR with my other colleague got caught cheating. What a mess

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Not only that but a girl who sits next to him? That could potentially open a portal to hell

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