I have this particular weak point that I need advice on.

I meet a girl on a party.
Sometimes we kiss, sometimes we do not.
She seems genuinely interested at this point.
We swap phone numbers or add each other on Facebook.

I usually contact her the next day in a casual way but it goes nowhere from this point.

What it this? Poor text game? Appearing as needy and being placed on a backburner? Maybe I don't make her put enough effort into this situation the next day? Regrets after sobering up? Her being already interested in someone else?

I can share more details if you need them, but I think that would better work out is if someone could just please share some insight into how to cope with such situations step by step.

There are some areas of the game that work for me very well, so this is driving me insane that those particular situations almost never work out for me. If I don't close the deal on the same evening it's almost always no deal for me.

I'm trying to avoid those kinds of failures in the future but some tips on fixing already fucked up situations would be appreciated.

Girls flake man. Get used to it. The solution is to to do your best to:
• make the number solid
• fuck her the same night
• add more volume and play the numbers game. Have 3/4 other girls you're chasing, maybe one will be solid.

I would do all the above personally

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How in the hell can we tell you if you have poor text game when you give us no example?

It can be 100 different things.

Don't expect much from party hookups.

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