I've been talking to this girl I met online and she said she's not looking for a relationship or anything serious but she just wants to go out have fun and have a laugh and then come back and have sex. She also said we need to build some chemistry first though. We're meeting up tomorrow so please any advice on where to meet up and what to do/say? (examples on things to say will be very helpful!) I'm quite new to this! Thanks

It's not what you say, it's how you say it. There's a thread somewhere where Dragula gives great examples of this, but I can't find it. Basically just get your eye contact on point!

The thread was called "Giving girls the look" or something like that.

You know that look you give when you're flirting? Give that to her, ALWAYS. I don't care if you're talking about sex, cars, shoes or anything. Give her the look, escalate, be confident, lead, learn to appreciate "awkward" silences instead of rushing for something to quickly end them and get it back flowing - let her to be the one to panic and quickly think of something to say.

A quick tip I'll give, is to go for the kiss WAY before the end of the date.

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Bar + Drinks and then back to your place for a black and white movie? (Put on Guess Who' with bernie mac and aston kusher)

I will so though, in my experience those "looking" for fun girls have an entire checklist and are time wasters. "building chemistry" would be the same process no matter what you're looking for; so they just tend to be a little extra with it. Not saying it can't be done, but I find the "looking for relationship" girls the most efficient women to go after.

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Yeah, just to do the standard thing really.

Find a bar close to your place, perhaps avoid topics like family etc and keep it more physical.

So less talking about if she is close with her mother and more talking about what she likes in a guy. Escalate when you feel the ice is broken.

Then, netflix and chill

Girls like this are notorious for flaking last minute. So perhaps plan a contingency fuck buddy or...avoid bridges to jump off

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