Hello dear community, long time lurker I finally decided to join.

Heres the story, Ive met this girl where I work and after a while she invited me over to see her new puppy, I accepted but
Told her I had to stay just a bit cuz I needed to go train, I work in Ocean Rescue.
Well so then we see each other again in her house, drink some wine get comfy but here comes whats driving me nuts. She lets me touch her breast, ass. Inside her inner thigh and sometimes kiss her neck but when she gets too aroused. She tells me to control myself. I asked her whats with this attitude, she said you used to get everything fast arent you?.

So what shoukd I do guys? Its like we cuddle but nonkisses or oral sex or sex.. and I think shes playing games or isnt really interested.

Apologies fo by the poorly written topic im in my phone.

Thanks in advance guys.

lol Action's speaks louder than words. You chose to listen to her. But disregarded the situation she put herself in, You need to learn how to handle token resistance, you should of continued...'Yes, we should stop shouldn't we...' and continue to be physical.

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Yeah but when she said thatbshe kinda pushed me off a bit lol butnwould still let me grab her ass or breast is fkin weird

Doesn't make sense, only backs up my post if anything... '2 steps forward one step back' and all that...Persistence

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Sounds like the normal game that you have to push through.

In short: she just sees you at a value level that she requires more investment from you before giving up the panties.

You counter that by continuing to push, or being willing to walk away.

A secret to getting through these moments is to go for the breast. The breast are a woman's positive pole on her body. The neck and the breast. Her negative pole is her vagina. You unlock the vagina by going for the breast. Sucking on the breast also releases a chemical in a womans brain called oxytocin, and oxytocin is the same chemical that bonds a mother to her child during breast feeding... You get the picture.

Spend 10-15 mins with the breast, licking and rubbing all of the nerve endings and you will deal with very little resistance when its time for sex.

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Thanks for all the help btw.. I finally closed the girl and was able to have sex with her, but after a few days in her house she seems kind of coocoo.. I mentioned how at first I thought her cousin was hot, in a playful way and she got rlly upset.. then I was able to calm her down and for some reason while I was at her house again, she checked my phone, me having nothing to hide didn't really care, and oh surprise she found a text her cousin sent me like 8 months ago (I know I'm stupid I didn't DELETE texts, I usually don't) so she said I was a liar (Don't understand why my texts were super neutral and was only asking her how both of them were doing in NY while they were traveling) and told me to leave, so I left with no oposition, later that night she texted me I was the worse in the world and a liar, still don't understand why cause I didn't really do anything.. I figured she's fkin nuts so I'm better off without seeing her.

Opinions? Also sorry about the wall text, and I forgot I used the line EnglishMUffin told me and it totally worked.

Anyway thanks again and please tell me if it's a smart decision to stay away from this nutjob.