And how would you deal with it, if a chick you slept with accidentally stumbled upon articles along the lines of "How to kiss a girl" and so on? Or supposing you hadn't had sex in years and this mere fact in itself, was rubbed in... by a few friends (girls included) coming across your browser's history.

It's not spelled out on this site, if it's something we should be hiding or not... but I've always viewed it as if I should. Because I know how society has no problem with anyone analysing any subject in great detail, but if you study 'how to chat up girls' it's considered unorthodox.

Anyway for some reason, I guess it's something that I anticipated. And just last week, for the first time in a long while, I got laid. In the morning I awoke to my girl asking for my laptop password. She managed to make this seem like it wasn't a big deal, and I could see she just expected me to give it to her. I wouldn't have expected this sort of confident behaviour out of her and I found it kind of cute for some reason.

I was glad at this moment of my previous habit. I gave her the password, and let her surf away while rested for about 20 minutes or so. I mean, what reason does a guy have not to let someone surf on his PC anyway - unless he's hiding porn or a secret diary. Maybe it would be hassle having to do this if I used the site more often, but luckily I don't.

Nope. If she ever asks I tell her the truth.

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Always used to delete everything. Now.... I just don't care to. No one is really looking through my laptop or using the browser so I don't see the point. It's not worth having to log in and out every time I want to check out the forums

Not really, no.

If you're up to no good (have to think about hiding stuff) it means you don't trust your partner.

That said its prob not a good idea to leave your FB page open as people often misinterpret things on there. But again, it does come down to trust.

Now would you be have as quick to tell a gal the truth before having slept with her?!

Trust with who? With what? No. It comes down to if you can really be yourself or if you think you have to be someone else for people to like or accept you. The truth about what? That there was a time that when I wasn't nearly as good with women as I am now, so I learned how to become a better man. Then yes I would tell her that before sleeping with her and I have with a few.

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Nothing to do with this whatsoever. Lots of things on a person's FB page may perturb their partner such as not having your relationship status displayed or the status itself ("its complicated"), types of women on a friend list, content of posts even if said things are completely innocuous. The partner's response will come down to how secure they are within themselves (and the relationship). But why even leave it open for other eyes unless you're running a blog together or its a family page etc. This has nothing to do with validation seeking as you'd implied.

Even if you have honest intentions, your actions are what people see and when it comes to social media site things are misconstrued all the time. Has nothing to do with being yourself.

Personally man, I really do not care. I'm always going to make a way for myself and i'm about my own self improvement. I did an entire piece called " Do Your Friends Know You're A Pick Up Artist" on wayoftheplayer. You should go check it out. It's pretty much a full discussion on this very topic.

If you're still worried about what girls are going to think of you, you have a bit of a ways to go in your walk.

If a girl asked me " You googled how to kiss a girl? " and I would look at her and say " Well it worked. Who cares " And what is she going to do?

I know its easier said than done but this is something you have to work on. Do what you want to do, and if you're ashamed of what you're doing either get over it or stop doing it.

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Okay, well I'll admit that example is rather innocent, but she could well rsay to herself "it's not gonna work on me" It's not that I'm ashamed of it, but more so that it would present complications, and would be hard to justify given the current view society has of PUAs being creepy.

There are women out there who don't realise that PUA is so common. So she'd have to take a step back in order to reassess what kind of guy you could be. It's one thing to say to a girl, that you've become better with women, like says DW-Heart-Charme above, but I doubt he'd tell her the whole truth by then showing this website on his laptop BEFORE having slept with her. I know it wouldn't be as bad as saying "Oh look, here's the trick I did on you which I practiced in front of the mirror many times. You thought that was me being spontaneous but no - not at all"

OR

"the other night when I was waving at people in the bar, I was only waving at dead air to give the impression I'd lots of friends". But still, a girl will likely err on the safe side by assuming the worst in a situation like this.

I delete porn history, cause I've got a filthy mind. I don't delete pick up stuff lol.

There's this one girl who I literally show threads from this forum to, and I ask what she thinks of certain things I've suggested to guys (not because I don't trust what I said, but because I like to see how women really don't understand what they emotionally respond to). It's weird how often she'll come out with some dark PUA kind of stuff though, manipulative little devil. Keeps me on my toes.

I also "pretend" to be a pick up artist... I randomly say things like, lets say I trip up while I'm walking with her, I'll say something like "I did that because Adam Lyons said it's attractive to be vulnerable. I wanted to field test the tripping up routine, on a HB7 like yourself. Is your hair real? That was a neg, do you fancy me now?" lol, she goes along with it and it's quite funny.

I also told my Dad about pick up when I first ever learned it... that was a mistake. I told him about negging, and he spent days making jokes like "So if a girl has twins, you're going to say you like the right one more? Yea, I'm sure she'll want to sleep with you instantly" lol.

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Haha none of this matters at all. In my experience, being a PUA or learning about game has came up very rarely with a woman. I used to think they would find all this stuff I learned about too. I even worried what they would think. Then eventually I got to a place where I said who gives a fuck. I am proud of the knowledge I found and the man I have become I wouldn't ever turn my back on that for a girl I haven't slept with yet.

You still come from a place of thinking this is deceptive. Come from the right place and it's not. More than anything it's about the man you come to be. The women go to great lengths to find out who that man is, knowing that your a PUA is like knowing that you are an engineer.

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If she goes snooping threw my history, early on, then theres are issues with her,

The girl that I mentioned, recently found a thread where I was talking about her lololol

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It may be possible to pull that off, but any guy who refers to PUA (when with a girl) will always be an idiot to some extent (especially after the girl sees a post about her!). I also assume you only say things like this to girls who already know about the fact you're into PUA.

Yes, but that's kinda beside the point