Greetings fellow Comrades. I've come to this forum to urgently find answers to a problem I'm facing. I can even bet some of us here have circum to the same issues once in a while. I only need to hear your honest and best view opinion on how to get me out this slump.

I've recently started pua and I think I'm making considerable progress. I'm able to approach and create attraction and eventually get the woman's number and set up a date. But whenever I get on text game everything seems to plummet. And I recently went on a date and it just seemed like the vibe had just disappeared. How can I resolve this issue ?

This is normal. You're just in the extreme flakey stage. It's a numbers game bro, keep at it.

If you're expecting to get laid more than you get rejected/flaked then you are totally thinking this the wrong way.

Keep what you're doing. Approaching and escalating till you find the sexually available girls. That's it

You can only do so much to reduce the flake rate but it will never go away. The sooner accept that you have no idea a girl will respond or not no matter how good the interaction is, the better it is so you don't hate women for being flakey %}+#*}!

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Only text to setup dates and keep the back and forth as minimal as possible.

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Hey superstar! First off - don't you worry now! Your already making great progress: you need to recognise that FIRST. Secondly most of us SUCK at text game. YEP.

There is nothing to worry about though - every time you make a mistake that is ACTUALLY YOU LEARNING. FACT!

Alright so you basically want to do 3 things with your texting:
- make her feel an emotion (easiest as an LOL moment; if it makes you laugh then send it)
- make her feel a connection (connect of the initial emotion - this just means you share a similar experience around it or you perception of a situation)
- set up the date (do this really simply around either some place your already going, some place you love to go or some place that is unique to you. e.g. "Let's continue this with frozen yogurt. My favourite place open's at 5 - swinging by then this week: when does your schedule and your stomach have an opening" - don't use a question mark)

Think of them as check points. Don't go trying to hit the same check point over and over and over - she will loose desire for you.

Also you want to respond at different time lengths - like your hyper busy (sometimes 15mins, sometime instantly sometimes 2 hours) - that way she will start to perceive you as a high DEMAND man

I hear you on the first date - the trick is to NOT CARE about that; DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE take it as a sign of anything; just take it back to the same vibe and most importantly ENJOY YOURSELF with her - any number of things could be going on with her, maybe she's had a rough day, maybe she's nervous, maybe she's insecure: the point is to just bring back the good vibe's and snap her into enjoyment. BOOM.

You can do it my friend - Totally believe in you 100%

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Why don't you try calling?

The key is to make the emotional connection. If there is no emotional connection yet created what separates you from the random Facebook pings and text messages?

I never understood approaching a woman "just to get her number", to walk away, to text her, just to get her in person again when you have her right there in person with you. Why not just fully capitalize off of the moment while its available? Are you going for full closes? Instant dates? Etc.


Either way, if you're going to get the number I would suggest you calling first, seeking to make the emotional connection.

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