I'm in the city right now with a bit of free time and I feel so nervous to approach. Like, why would they want me, thinking I don't look good enough, I could be dressed better, I feel inferior like there could be better guys our there. I feel the really hot girls like 9's & 10's won't want me. Also, I have no idea what to say (it's daytime right now).

Use the 3 second rule.

All your fears are unfounded.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Open one next time you're out and the second she smiles at you and you realize "THIS IS FUN AND EXCITING AS HELL.............I'M ALIVE!!!!!!!!", all those fears will vanish in the wind instantly.

By the way I'm sure you already know this but you were experiencing run of the mill approach anxiety.

Which means........You're normal!

So go out there and meet some girls. You must view yourself as a cool ass mofo who any woman would be fortunate to know. They're bored, they're interested in YOU and they're waiting. Get to it.

As to what to say, talk about whatever is going on around you. If you're in the city there are literally thousands of things going on at any moment any place you are.

You can if you want but you don't have to do Youtube gamebot spam with "You. stop. I think you are cute. Where are you from let me guess" etc. After all, if your intent is clear through your DEMEANOR that's all that counts anyway. This stuff is nonverbal for the most part. They pick up on your vibe immediately.

Don't be trying to "get" something from the girl. You are a smooth dude and you have great vibes and you are just going to reward her by having a little convo with her, that is all. Don't forget to talk about yourself a little bit too. See where it leads. Maybe you don't like something about her. Be mentally scoping her out while you're talking to her almost like you're non-arrogantly seeing if she's got what it takes to chill with you.

Overall: relax and have fun.

Get the first approach of the day over with and you get that energy flowing through your veins. Before you know it, you're in social fluidity.

" hi " - The best opener i've found and I live right here in New York just like you.

However if you think the thoughts that you thought then you are correct. As a man thinketh so is he.

You have to recondition your mind. The things you repeat to yourself over and over you will eventually believe them and take them as truth. I personally believe I'm the greatest looking man that has ever existed in the history of all creation in this galaxy or any other period. I've programmed myself and it is through this programming that I have the confidence to make any approach and put my best assertive foot forward.

Tell yourself what you want to be as if you are already it. Then repeat it and repeat it all day long millions upon millions of times. It could take anywhere for 3 months to a year of consistency before you're convinced, but once you are you'll be thankful you invested in the time to get you there. This is how actors get into character; convincing themselves they are the guy in the script. The world is your movie, become who you want to be through consistent mental repetition.

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