Been in the game since Nocember last year, still total Novice...

Today at Uni met this girl... I'll give her a 7.5/10, quite hot, like fuckable type of hot, edgy chick with big breasts...

Fuck. She was quite intimidating ... Real confident in herself, talkative and a little sensual. You know those witty type of girls, she caught me off guard...

I usually dominate conversations cause i mostly hit on shy girls so this was a new experience... I was caught off guard, kind of froze, didn't really know what to say, mumbled a few of my words... Tried to play it cool... But still felt awkward as fuck. My attitude is like a pretty chill dude.

How do I deal with Confident, sensual girls. Also how can I improve my Witticisms and Banter skills?

The only thing that changed was your perception of her.

I could've talked to the same exact girl and thought nothing of her. I could've saw her as being non witty and a 4. And had I seen her like that I would of dealt with her accordingly and not of run into the issue you ran into. It sounds like a cute girl gave you a little attention and it struck you enough to open you up to her making a bigger impression that she originally had the ability to make.

Its a perception thing. As a man I am the dominate figure and i understand the way not only my presence effects women but also the tonation of my voice. These creates a new level of confidence when communicating.

So what you did was overlook your ability and potential; and in the process you were suspended and in light awe by a couple cool comebacks. I'd like to think it takes more to deer and headlights you. Plenty of witt everywhere you go; when you actually find someone special let me know.

Good banter is a reflection of the confidence you have during a conversation. If you're nervous and in your head you'll be struggling to have comebacks. When you're completely calm, relaxed, and belly breathing the conversation just sort of flows.

Its like talking to your friends.. You don't have to think about what to say; you're almost on auto pilot and the conversation is just flowing naturally. Because you know them and you're relaxed. So the key to good banter is just to be relaxed, with your focus on forming a connection. Get the mind right and the rest will take care of itself.

The more women you talk to, the more relaxed you'll be when talking to them. So just keep it up. And its also nice to see these approaching threads. There are so many oneitis and coworker threads. So salute.

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Don't try to up your wit game. Just be yourself - the 'yourself' that you described as a pretty chill dude. As you get more experiences with more women, you will come to find out that you are able to hang in and banter back and forth with more of them.

You never, ever run out of things to banter about w/ girls when you just allow yourself to flow in to convos with them - especially when interacting with multiple girls in one day when your social energy will only continue to rise and rise throughout the day.

Keep getting out there and talking to all kinds of women. Even though you got a little bit flustered, I'll guess that it was still exciting to talk to her. Go meet more girls like her and get more used to being around them. It's fun as hell and it'll come naturally the more experience you get.