| How to get solid numbers (day game)
If you want solid numbers then you’re going to have solid game. With weak game comes weak result. Here is what it means to having solid game. If you fall shot from any of these attributes listed, then you still have a lot of work to do.
• -If you’re still trying to hide your attraction for her on any level, just expect her to do the same by not texting you back. This literally means that you fear her, more than you want to be with her.
• -If you’re not taking charge of the interaction, thinking that she’s going to help play this role for you, then the best thing you can do to receive a text back, would be to apologize for your lack of experience with women.
• -If you’re still wanting to get to know her, and yet at the same time you fear her rejection, then understand that you’ve just confused her as much as you’re confusing yourself. Chances of you receiving a text back are very slim with this approach.
• -If you still can’t walk away for her as quickly as she can walk away from you. Then consider yourself needy, which will leave you needing a text back from her moments later.
• -If you’re still flinching at everything she throws at you, don’t expect her to throw you back a text.
Lately guys have been asking me why is that I am able to get numbers, but can not get them to text back. They ask me, what is a good text to send, that will have a girl on her phone in seconds. Guys that are just getting into this, need realize that you cant fake your way into having a girl interested in you in such a way that drives her to want to get to know you. No matter how flashy your pick-up lines are, this will not work! They all fail to understand that most of their future flaking complications are going to start in field. Think of it this way. Your “game” is like momentum that starts from when you approach all they way to your next me up with her. So if things start off with momentum moving slowly, then chances are your interaction with her is only going to become slower until it comes to a stop. If your interaction starts off properly, with sparks flying, than you are able to smoothly ride the momentum of each other until you arrange a date, meet up, or what ever you want to call it. You literally have to give her all that you have during this short period of time you are with each other. She wants to feel that you are attracted to her, so that it will be ok for her to be attracted to you. She wants to see that you are able to take charge of the situation so that she doesn’t have to deal with any feelings awkwardness. She also wants to feel that you don’t need her, as this forces her to step up to the plate.
So now that you understand what solid game is, I am now going to take you step by step of what a solid male to female interaction would be in terms of momentum. I am not going be giving you any pick up lines, as I feel that they hinder you from creating the most important thing that is needed if you want to see this girls again, which is an authentic connection with her. So let’s begin.
-You see a girl that you are attracted to, so you open her.
-she turns her head and smiles, as you ask her for her name.
-you bring up cool topics, and she is now engaged into the conversation
-you make her laugh, you tease her, and she feels the feeling of attraction towards you.
This is where most guys that are good at creating attraction find themselves asking for her number. Never get her number at this stage of the interaction or at least try not to. Her being attracted to you is very different from her being comfortable with you. You want to create an emotional connection with her that she is able relive as soon as she hears the ringing from her phone, expecting a text from you. Now let’s continue the interaction.
-at this point you not only see that she is attracted to you, you can also feel it. This makes you more attracted to her.
-you slow down the pace of the interaction just a bit, and begin trying to get to know her. (Topics such as: what does she like to do for fun, her age, commonalties etc)
-she now feels a combination of attraction and comfort towards you. (Now would be a good time to get her number, as this is what it mean to have a created a solid connection)
-you exchange numbers, and she is happy to have met such a confident guy.
One more tip before you leave her at the mercy of her own thoughts. Be sure to arrange another get-together right then and there. Don’t leave until you have done this step. Give her an excuse to want to keep the interaction going as the two of you part ways. This is definitely going help carry the momentum forward toward seeing her for a second time.
While it is not possible to deliver solid game on every woman you approach, you should at least have a good idea of where you stand with her. On the other hand, even with a solid approach, solid game, and a solid connection, all of this combined still doesn’t mean that she will text you back If this does occur, in which it will, than I can assure you that you will not be left feeling down on yourself for her actions. You gave it all that you had, and that should be the most you can ask for. With that said, I hope this post has helped a few guys out, as this is what I aim to do. If you have any questions regarding the topic of how to improve you dating life or you may just want to get to know me on a deeper level, please be sure to send a message directly to my inbox and I will be glad to help out as much as I can. Leave a comment if you enjoyed this post! _________________ Learn How I pull Harder Than Most Guys on Here: MasterTalkers.com
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