2 related questions. What does it mean to be unreactive, and how do you avoid letting her lead the conversation?

They say "dont be reactive"
but when she asks "where are you from?" "what do you do for fun?"
If your answer is related to her question, aren't you reacting to her? for example "I am from Florida." you are reacting to her.
in addition, when a girl asks the questions and you answer, you are letting her lead the conversation. doesn't that lead straight to friendzone? how do you turn the tables on her?
and how do you keep the mystery thing going? if you answer the questions honestly, doesn't that kill the mystery?

You develop confidence bart.

You're another member on the forum who's questions all are stemming from the same source. You have yet to get out there with any consistency and develop your emotional fortitude and confidence. I can't give you a formula if you don't have the ingredients to make it work.

You still haven't done the work bart. Its like you come here and just ask a question because you're bored. You then read the answers, go about your day, and then come back and do it all over again. When do you get tired of running in this circle? When do you finally get out there 3-4 times a week approaching women consistently whether you fail or get rejected.

Its like you don't actually want to get good. You just want results without having to improve yourself, without having to deal with too much discomfort, and without any failure .

Sure you can keep this up, but until you do what you know you should, I can't help but feel like you're wasting your time.

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