Hey guys this might be a werid question to be asked in a <a href="">PUA Forum</a>s but i was just curious is there anyway to make sure you fall into the LJBS stage? I always have a problem once i start talkin to a girl it usualy heads to the hookin up stage or getting together bullshit but i kinda just wanna meet some girls to just be firends with and through them meet other girls i just wanna be the guy with all the girls. My problem is when i meet a girl i end up having them like me and when they realize they have no chance with me they leave and i loose firends. Any ideas?

me too, my friend is really good at being the friend. he just listens and does whatever the girl wants him to. He dresses nice and always plays it cool as to not embarass the girl. He has really really low self esteem and he is a moron. So he just listens to whatever they say, he is extremely nice, and has rules about social oblijations.

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Walk Hard

i really think there would be a better way then just being the girls little bitch lol...

just make friends, dont demonstrate kino, dont play any of the "I'm so attracted to you i cant even talk to you" takeaways. once you get into the set, DHV to show you have social statue and just talk as if you've been friends forever. If she doesnt feel as you are attracted you wont be building her attraction, setting her up for failure.

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B-Sweet

When you are the prize, you are like a diamond. If you allow her to become the prize, you become a cubix zarconia.

sweetw has the right idea. However, you would also want to cut out the concepts of "ignoring/negging" your target. These are key spots when you meet a girl when she becomes "interested" in you. Just DHV to look like a fun person but treat the girl as though you would an obstical and be her friend. You can get to know girls as friends by just being a cool fun nice guy.

ahh you know i just realized when i try to act PUA i got nothing but when i dont care i use all the PUA tactics and honestly i pretty much pick up girls without knowing i dont even know if i should consider this a problem. lol well thanks guy i guess ima try to keep all the flirting down maybe i can gather up a nice group of girlfriends.