Hey guys! Sorry to post another question about an ex, I know this is about pickup but I find this interesting.

So friday afternoon I get a text from the ex "Hey, just realised I never got to play you at fifa ". ( shes been initiating contact on and off, been a month since the breakup, together for 5 months)

I debated for a few hours whether to reply, ( making good progress moving on). Anyway I replied saying " there's no point we both no I would destroy you". She text me back saying, " you obviously underestimate me... maybe you should just destroy me instead? Ive had time to think and Im so annoyed at myself that I didnt make the most of the time I had with you and your lush body. all I want to do is play fifa and eat cream off each other all day, everyday".

My question is, what is going on here, does she actually want sex again, Or does anyone have any advice how I can make her my fb or should I just go with the flow or just ignore her and carry on moving on?

thanks for reading

First of all lol at "lush body." Are you Groot or something?


Second, what do you want to do?

Because that's probably the most important part. The only caveats if you want to bang here are things like "was the relationship unhealthy."

Never herd of groot? but thats what she said.

Yeah I want to bang her again but I dont want to fall in the trap of just texting and giving her all the attention she requires and never seeing her. Secondly we didnt have an unhealthy relationship in my opinion. She said she need some time as her previous bf beat her badly and I was the first guy she had been with since, whether that's bs or not I dont know.

The tree dude from Guardians of the Galaxy. "Lush" is usually used to describe vegetation... thus my amusement. Definitely watch the movie though, it's awesome.
Then bang her and don't fall into that trap. Sounds like she wants to bang, so invite her over some night and get busy. If she makes excuses or keeps trying to push it off just stop replying. You can only really fall into a trap if you don't see it coming.

Lush is quite common English slang for 'Very nice'.

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You mean England English? Never heard it used that way in the US...

You're in the minority.

First things first..

Why did you have to debate on responding? And why did you guys break up? What did she do?

You left that part out.

Ex's are usually trouble man. Everything comes with a price. You don't just get no string attached sex, Fifa, an ice cream parties with an ex without any consequences. Consider that and what they would be?

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I was debating replying for the fact that I liked her and I was making good progress moving on and I wasnt sure if her texting was seeking validation and just checking up on me?

We broke up as her previous ex use to abuse her, and she said she needed time to think if she was ready to have a relationship again. The first time she stayed over she didnt want to have sex as she had some nasty bruises and didnt want me to see her like that. whether she wanted to take time for the reasons she suggested or not I guess is unclear? she told me In the text shes over it now and her head is clear and that she wants to have sex again.

What sort of consequences? how would you suggest I proceed? Ive not made any plans to see her as of yet what would you recommend?