Hey guys,

When getting started in the PUA world, it can be intimidating with knowing where the hell to start. There's hundreds of PUA books (and thousands of self-improvement books) plus bootcamps, phone consults, seminars, meet up groups, forums, etc...

It gets intimidating.

I got good (100+ lays in 3 years) by embracing the mastermind component. Find a group of guys who are immersing themselves in the game lifestyle hard (24/7 when possible). This is the same strategy Style and many MPUAs followed to get good.

Find a few guys you respect in the community who you KNOW do well with women (Facebook pics of him with his arm around a hot chick DOES NOT COUNT). If they let you live with them, do it. Osmosis is the #1 way I've watched guys get good at game.

Bootcamps will give a quick bump to your game but require you to self-motivate after, which can sometimes be difficult. Seminars are close to worthless unless you have no fundamental understanding of pick up or want to learn a new theory. The forums work as a support group if you are going out (Don't become a keyboard jockey!!) Phone coaching has its place but should build towards working with your coach in person several times a year at least.

So do yourself a favor... Hit up a player in your local area and see if he will go out with you a few times a week in a mentor set up (Yes, money will probably be involved). Even better live with that mentor or invite him to live with you. Embrace his lifestyle and always be appreciative of the words of wisdom he is giving to you. The more wisdom you can download from him, the better.

Hope this post helps guys out. There are longterm live-in and live-out mastermind programs going on all over the country (probably the world). I know of a few, PM me if you want to hear about them.

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Chris
Dating Strategist
https://structureofdating.com/