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PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2015 1:49 pm 
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is there such type of women?

good looking women usually keep a bunch of orbiters. they know poor orbiters do anything they can to please the princess.

it makes me wonder if there is a kind of hot women that don't keep orbiters at all. they don't like using people. and they only love their boyfriend.

are they the so-called keepers/LTR material/ marriage material?


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Of course they exist. Depends on the girl.

Girls who love attention keep orbiters.

What are you worried about orbiters for? Don't be one and you're fine.


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Eh girls will always have orbiters even if they don't find then sexually attractive.


Orbiters is another term for guys she isn't having sex with or guys she's only friends with

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All women have orbiters man. Just of different qualities. So long as the girl isn't a 3 or lower there is always going to be some guy trying to sleep with them.

Imagine if women were trying to sleep with you at every turn, texting you all the time trying to get you to come out with them. They would become your orbiters unintentionally. Its not like you stop them from contacting you. I don't think you're looking at this from the proper pov.

A womans orbiters should not even be of your concern. Just be who you came to be in her lives and everything before you will be irrelevant.

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i am not looking for a LTR SPAM. when i hit my mid-thirties, i want to find a woman that is loyal to me. a woman who keeps a large amount of orbiters on purpose somehow puts me off.


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i am not looking for a LTR SPAM. when i hit my mid-thirties, i want to find a woman that is loyal to me. a woman who keeps a large amount of orbiters on purpose somehow puts me off.
You sound insecure.

A large part of a woman's loyalty is dependent upon how YOU make her feel. How affective YOUR leadership is.

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i am not looking for a LTR SPAM. when i hit my mid-thirties, i want to find a woman that is loyal to me. a woman who keeps a large amount of orbiters on purpose somehow puts me off.
You sound insecure.

A large part of a woman's loyalty is dependent upon how YOU make her feel. How affective YOUR leadership is.

What about those of us with hot girlfriends who are obsessed with us (sex 24/7, aloof, decisive, ect) and in love, but they still have orbiters?


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i am not looking for a LTR SPAM. when i hit my mid-thirties, i want to find a woman that is loyal to me. a woman who keeps a large amount of orbiters on purpose somehow puts me off.
You sound insecure.

A large part of a woman's loyalty is dependent upon how YOU make her feel. How affective YOUR leadership is.

What about those of us with hot girlfriends who are obsessed with us (sex 24/7, aloof, decisive, ect) and in love, but they still have orbiters?


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 11, 2015 7:26 pm 
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Like I said..

Imagine there were women of all kinds, types, and creeds trying to have sex with you all day long. Everywhere you go, everytime you leave the house there are women trying to have sex with you. You would turn down the majority of them (as a woman you would turn down more), but you're going to eventually make friends with some of them. Perhaps this is why ancient cultures kept there women fully clothed and in the homes most of the times. Anyone that understand seduction can tell you that a womans attraction to you isn't necessarily her choice. Its about YOU affecting her. Femininity must submit to the masculinity that knows its power. Not all cases of all, but generally this is true. Our society today isn't setup for women not to have orbiters. Control what you can control.. You can control her, but you can not control the orbiters.

A woman is only going to do what you're willing to stand for. If maintaining relationships with orbiters will make you "leave her" she won't do it. She'll only do what there is a chance you will stick around for. This is where a strong frame and mindset comes into play. She's only responding to whats on the inside of you.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 12, 2015 12:27 pm 
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Like I said..

Imagine there were women of all kinds, types, and creeds trying to have sex with you all day long. Everywhere you go, everytime you leave the house there are women trying to have sex with you. You would turn down the majority of them (as a woman you would turn down more), but you're going to eventually make friends with some of them. Perhaps this is why ancient cultures kept there women fully clothed and in the homes most of the times. Anyone that understand seduction can tell you that a womans attraction to you isn't necessarily her choice. Its about YOU affecting her. Femininity must submit to the masculinity that knows its power. Not all cases of all, but generally this is true. Our society today isn't setup for women not to have orbiters. Control what you can control.. You can control her, but you can not control the orbiters.

A woman is only going to do what you're willing to stand for. If maintaining relationships with orbiters will make you "leave her" she won't do it. She'll only do what there is a chance you will stick around for. This is where a strong frame and mindset comes into play. She's only responding to whats on the inside of you.
it seems that there is no way a woman would give up their orbiters. if she has to choose between her orbiters and her boyfriend, she would not hesitate to ditch the jealous boyfriend. Most PUAs wouldn't settle for one woman. It is a good thing. PUA never feels jealous. However, I want to get married at a certain age. I want to find someone who is not selfish. Someone who doesn't look for backup plans.


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Like I said..

Imagine there were women of all kinds, types, and creeds trying to have sex with you all day long. Everywhere you go, everytime you leave the house there are women trying to have sex with you. You would turn down the majority of them (as a woman you would turn down more), but you're going to eventually make friends with some of them. Perhaps this is why ancient cultures kept there women fully clothed and in the homes most of the times. Anyone that understand seduction can tell you that a womans attraction to you isn't necessarily her choice. Its about YOU affecting her. Femininity must submit to the masculinity that knows its power. Not all cases of all, but generally this is true. Our society today isn't setup for women not to have orbiters. Control what you can control.. You can control her, but you can not control the orbiters.

A woman is only going to do what you're willing to stand for. If maintaining relationships with orbiters will make you "leave her" she won't do it. She'll only do what there is a chance you will stick around for. This is where a strong frame and mindset comes into play. She's only responding to whats on the inside of you.
it seems that there is no way a woman would give up their orbiters. if she has to choose between her orbiters and her boyfriend, she would not hesitate to ditch the jealous boyfriend. Most PUAs wouldn't settle for one woman. It is a good thing. PUA never feels jealous. However, I want to get married at a certain age. I want to find someone who is not selfish. Someone who doesn't look for backup plans.
You need to reread Eddie's 2nd paragraph again.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 12, 2015 3:57 pm 
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Well he's like what if this girl had some orbiter from elementary school which she now considers her best friend.

You all think it's so easy to handle these types of situations. Girls will try to hold on to their friends and if you show that you feel threatened by the friends she can and will lose attraction for you.

I'm curious as to how exactly will you bring up the idea of making her drop those guys she's known for years without coming off insecure? Would you present an ultimatum? Would you do some slick manipulative thing?

Explain.

To answer your question, yes they do exist. Some women don't have any guy friends because they don't trust it, and they only keep women friends around.

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You all think it's so easy to handle these types of situations. Girls will try to hold on to their friends and if you show that you feel threatened by the friends she can and will lose attraction for you.

I'm curious as to how exactly will you bring up the idea of making her drop those guys she's known for years without coming off insecure? Would you present an ultimatum? Would you do some slick manipulative thing?

Explain.
What you're not understanding is that it's what you are willing to stand for. If you explain that you don't want a girlfriend that hangs out with a man that is not you, she'll respect it if your relationship is more important than the orbiter. The thing is that you don't call it a relationship without revealing your needs first. You don't call a woman your girlfriend and then later drop the bomb of people you don't want her hanging out with.

It's very easy to do. Up front and honest. If she doesn't like it, you move on.

Hopefully this explanation will help you a bit.

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I get it, set the terms before the relationship. Would you do this by having a relationship conversation or casually dropping things you do and do not accept early on in general conversations?

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I get it, set the terms before the relationship. Would you do this by having a relationship conversation or casually dropping things you do and do not accept early on in general conversations?
Women start dropping hints when they want or considering a relationship with you and some just outright say it. When they start doing that, this is when you can start having those conversations.

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