Whats up guys, so im kind of in a predicament and i need advice on something. First off I am somewhat new to the community. I read the game and lots of information on nlp so i am familiar with the terminology and basics. ok now to my situation. There was a girl i loved all throughout highschool. I ended up being friendzoned but ended up telling her the last day before she left for college that i liked her via letter. She didnt really respond or acknowledge it. Fast forward a year and i still like her. We havnt seen eachother since but i texted her today asking to go to dinner next week to catchup. She agreed. Now ive changed alot in the past year, Intellectually, financially and physically all much for the better what can i do or say during that dinner to have her fall in love with me? what techniques or processes do i use?
Thanks

sounds like you haven't changed at all mentally. If you are asking us what to do ? You changed, you're telling us you changed, now it is your job to display to change to this girl...Will the dude who wrote that letter come up at dinner or will a new and improved man come in and go in for the kill ?

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NLP her into liking you.

Seriously though I get you're new and as a consequence quite impressionable, but you gotta distinguish between what's legit and what's absolute bullshit. NLP is the absolute bullshit in this case.
The game is mostly bullshit as well.

If you're into reading material pick up No More Mr Nice Guy by Doctor Something. Don't really remember the name but should pop up at a google search. Also Models by Mark Manson. Models has an audiobook version as well, read by Mark himself, so take your pick.

Anyway, on to your questions. Like Mr A said you say you've changed but mentally you seem in the same place. She mostly likely sees this as a meet-up between friends. Pick a place where you can sit next to her, not across from her. Be physical, escalate, and if you're gonna kiss her don't attempt it at the end of the date. Avoid that awkward clichee. Do it whenever the two of you are having the most fun and your escalation made it so that is the next natural step.

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Rigidly follow Mr. A's and RC's advice above.

As to making a girl fall in love with you, you gotta fuck them good. Love is simply the release of massive amounts of oxytocin through multiple orgasms from the girl to counter the emotional lows after the dopamine highs that you can give the girl.

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Thanks guys i really appreciate the quick feedback, but i dont know how i would kiss her in this situation let alone take her home is there any way i can have her really thinking about me after i leave?

Yes. Kiss her. Or better yet fuck her.

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My in depth texting & dating guide.
There's no such thing as shit-tests.
How to keep a girl.

Dude... if you don't know how to get to kissing... well there's too much to type...
Ok, well to start, that's a limiting belief. You really need to dig deep into the pickup stuff and I mean get a bit from everyone, not just Mystery and Neil Straus, who are nearly one in the same. There is so much material on this subject!

It's only in your own head that "you can't kiss her"... the world is out there to be manipulated by us. Too many people think we are limited by reality when we can create most anything we want. Nothing great would happen in this world if people thought this way!