I recently heard the word inspirational statements stated by Charles Finley and it dawned on me. I will often tell inspirational stories to people. Then there is a pause at the end, and I'll just transition into something else.

When Talking to women I'll blend these into conversations. It's like I'm trying to make their lives better with some information that I am sure they have never heard of. I don't think this conversational habit is conducive to picking up girls.

It probably builds trust I suppose, and the story may be of value, but since 9-10 people are resistant to change 9 out of 10 people will respond negatively to it. Then they'll backwards rationalize some negetive excuse as to why they didn't like it.

Thoughts like "this person is arrogant", "know it all", :show off", or "look at him on his high horse" stuff will come to them as intuition.

This means for you reader, that if you want conversations to go smoothly 9 out of 10 times you need to not tell interesting stories or make inspirational statements during conversations with most people to be liked.

This would fall into the realm of trying to impress others. So fuck them and keep your gold for yourself, unless you feel like you're in the presence of that 1 in 10.

A good way to do this is to throw out a feeler. For me the stuff comes up naturally. Most of the time it happens if they bring something up and my mind jumps to something helpful and inspirational. So if I wanted to use this skill properly to get comfort, and be liked more by these women without the opposite of it's intended affect happening I would have to catch myself about to tell one automatically and critically think in an instant of a feeler.

A feeler would be casually throwing the idea out. Gauging the reaction in a positive manner, and then telling the story.

Thinking about this now, what I've been doing before was being reminded of something interesting off what they just said, and then delivering it by getting them to agree with something remotely related to what I want to say, and then just making my statement. Forcing backwards rationalization agreement to my statement and trying to be helpful and inspirational all at the same time.

So instead of doing that first, I'll see if they would be excited about the topic I'm going make my inspirational statement about. Excited and not just slightly interested. Their initial emotional state towards the idea will determine if they hang on your every word and love it, or think when you make one that it gets old and they don't want your help, and you are arrogant, and stuck on your own knowledge.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HccL8jUIIWU - Adoration of the Magi Lupe Fiasco