This post will be short and concise in observance of the value of your time

She's in a relationship with an older guy who pays her bills and gives her a place to stay

We've been hanging out, and since we first hung out she's been texting me nonstop . . at first my intentions were innocent but I started catching IOIs while we were at the beach and I moved in (she was literally asking for it by this point, she placed her back against those orange boats affixed under the Santa Monica pier - during the next few days she told me how much she's been thinking about me, how she can't get me off her mind blahblahblah, a few days later we banged at a hotel room and we hung out for the whole day after - I was in a tight spot and she got me a meal and even helped me get around that day by ordering my Ubers/Lyfts etc.

We hung out again after, she wanted to bang again but then she needed to get home . . to meet her boyfriend's parents (apparently they're in an "open relationship" but she's betraying his trust by not telling him about me)

Then I all but stopped hearing from her, she texted me one day and then broke conversation, about 3 days pass in which I didn't try to reach her and she just texted me after midnight with "Hey"

Shouldn't be a problem, doesn't sound like much but the lack of contact from her is inconsistent with her so I'm wondering what your assessment is of the situation and how I should respond. I decided to forgo my response tonight and hit her back in the morning . . what do you think?

Should I of gotten back to her tonight? Or is that conveying the wrong message, as if I had been waiting for her the whole time and I'm going to respond right away

Am I right to hit her back tomorrow?

Oh ya, I tried to Google "she texted me for the first time in awhile PUA" and the only results I got were "She hasn't texted me back posts", so when you see extra traffic being drawn to the forum over this post from people receiving texts, you're welcome

For starters, you wasted more of my time by writing this.

Anyway, despite the crappy entitled attitude, I think you're more than capable of figuring this one out for yourself. You were hanging with a girl who was sneaking behind the back of her boyfriend and sponsor to sleep with you. Next day she goes to meet his parents, and then returns from meeting the parents of the guy who she's sneaking around on and she's a lil distant with you. What do you think happen?

She's a chick. She's emotional. She's connected with the family and the dude over an experience which temporarily bonded them together.

It'll wear off and she'll come back to you so long as you don't develop too much neediness and begin writing long forum post about her.

Respond when you want to respond. She didn't like the guy all the much before, she isn't going to suddenly start liking him now.

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A "Hey" at midnight usually means she needs some willy...(booticall)

Replying to her also saying "hey" would probably lead to the point of why she is trying to contact you. In situations like this where she is cheating on her fella with you. You're at the mercy of whether they argue or not so I wouldn't say there is much you can do apart from keep the ball in her court and if she wants to meet then you are available.

It's volatile and it won't last forever so enjoy what you can

P.s. Thanks for the traffic bro, Really helps according to my google analytics account. Glad the digital marketing is going well.

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Thanks for the response. You'll have to excuse my crappy entitled attitude as I dropped out of NFL interview school and didn't learn to be faux-modesty

lmao @ the bolded


lmao

even the one word text is uncharacteristic of her, far from being congruent with the normal character she displays toward me. So me responding with simply a "Hey" here serves to let her dictate the pace and further perpetuate this erratic behavior - I'm super analytic in mindset so I'm often burdened by the process of bringing things down to a casual level to appease the female mind's need for simplicity (unless coming across those of the sapiosexual variety) . . the response is gonna mirror hers with a "Hey . .but then that'll be followed up with a short line to provide comic relief and ease of tension while also not acknowledging the tension exist

Ahahahaha that traffic stuff is funny...

But on the topic... so the girls that I've met that don't talk to me a while are usually off fucking around with other dudes. A few added me on snapchat photos of guys kissing them, out at the clubs, drinking, lol. This one girl even said she has to babysit her sister, then posts on snapchat photos of her out with guys kissing her. lmfao....

It's ok, that's what I'm doing when they are ignoring me