So last week I took the bullet train to Tokyo for a business trip and a cute Japanese woman came and sat next to me. I didn't talk with her right away, but I did notice her checking me out or looking my way quite often.

I decided to strike up a conversation with her and we ended up talking for about 30 minutes. In this time, we both mentioned that we were married and she mentioned she has 3 children. She still had no problem giving me her contact information.

I talked with her on the phone last week (about 5 days ago) and told her that I want to meet up with her in her city and take her to a comfortable, romantic hotel. She listened to my idea but even though I was speaking in English really slowly, she wasn't able to catch everything clearly. I plan to speak with her in mostly Japanese next time I call her up. There is a good chance she understood what I was saying and my intentions but was being shy and coy about it because women have acted this way with me before.

Anyway, I told her that I would give her a call next Monday (today). I haven't gotten around to calling her yet, but I noticed she took the initiative to message me first. I know that if you don't contact a woman for a while and tell her you will contact her a certain day and she makes the effort to contact you that day, then she probably is at least a little interested.

Her message was interesting because she mentioned that she is unable to talk with me on the phone today because her husband is at home with her. I know that she doesn't want to talk with me while her husband is there to protect her marriage, but is there a chance she knows what's up and is down, but wants to talk with me when he isn't around? I told her I will give her a call on Wednesday and she sent me an ok and a thank you reply with emoticons and all that.

Has anyone on here done pick up on a married woman or woman with a boyfriend and had them message you something like this? I remember hooking up with a woman that had a boyfriend and she messaged me something along the lines of: I really want to talk with you now, but my boyfriend is here with me now. I will let you know when he is out and you can call me ok?

Is there any particular reason 99% of your topics regard married women?

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There is a good reason for it.

I live in Japan and in Japanese culture, people are pressured by their families to marry early and often when they aren't even ready for marriage.

Due to this cultural phenomenon along with housewifes home alone while their husbands work 12 hour shifts, there are countless married, but lonely/horny women in this country.

Then you have the Japanese women who are just attracted to foreign men. Most of the women I end up meeting that are my age are already married and have been for about a decade thanks to the endless pressure their parents foisted onto them.

Except japan does have a thriving singles scene. Either you aren't aware of where to look or don't care to.

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Dude the thriving singles scene is mainly just in the big cities like Tokyo and Osaka. I live in a small city called Shizuoka City and there is no scene for foreigners and Japanese. There isn't even one western style bar/club in this town.

All of the bars/clubs here are called Kyabakura, where women just drink and talk for money and it is actually strictly against company policy rules to date/bang their customers.

Have you even been to Japan before?

Seems that when people on here don't have anything nice to say or advice, they just flame people.

Regardless, I will most likely bang this married woman on Wednesday.

Well, that makes you a dick some guys here would praise you for it, because they're also dicks.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Yes, call me what you want. I will never believe that those who don't fuck certain women just because they have some metal on their finger are better than I.

I tried to believe in a god, but we are all just apes in the end.

It's not about the ring. It's about your "beggars can't be choosers, plus I've spent my life angry at men who can actually get women, so now I want to learn how to steal their women for revenge" attitude.

Each to their own, but I prefer a loyal woman.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

While I do agree that there are men that have that revenge attitude, I don't.

I hope you weren't just pigeon-holing me here just now.

I just end up meeting married women and turns out they are hot, I want to fuck them and I don't give a fuck if they have another man or other men in their life.

This "revenge attitude" that you're talking about is something else entirely in my view. Many times I hooked up with girls who were in relationship and it wasn't because of the reason you mentioned above, it was simply because... Well I can.

I feel sorry for the guy but then again, I don't care.

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Exactly, I sometimes feel bad and then I wake up and realize it isn't my job to feel bad for strangers that couldn't give a fuck less if I we're hit by a train tomorrow. So I just fuck the women I meet regardless of whether or not they are single, married, remarried, have a bf, claim they are a lesbian,etc.

I've fucked girls with boyfriends in the past. Most guys have. The thing is that this guy goes out of his way to do so. He'd consider it a selling point "oh she's married with children. Nice."

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

And by stating "this guy" you are judging me or Cross de Lena?

It isn't a selling point for me. You seem to have this idea that it more wrong to fuck a married woman with children than a woman with a boyfriend. There is no difference to me.

This whole thing is weird to me. Banging married women because there aren't single ones available where you live. You know where the single women live but you stay where you are. Why not move to where the single women are? Be in the most optimal place that fits the lifestyle you want.

OP, you are probably more of an expert of banging married Japanese women over any other guy on this forum. You are in such a unique situation that most of the guys on the forum should be coming to you for advice for the types of situations you put yourself into. Just about every situation you're in is you dealing with a married woman in a submissive culture that does everything in their power to avoid hurting someone's feelings. The only thing that we would be able to offer you in your situation is the question: Are her actions characteristic of a Japanese married woman?

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