Ive been seeing this girl for a while now. been on 6 dates and slept with her. The phone contact between us is very little throughout the week, usually we only text to arrange a date. On the last date she told me she doesn't want to bother me and seem needy, ( I told her about this girl I once saw and she would text me 50 times a day so I think this might have something to do with it ), anyway she goes on holiday next week and when I saw her last she told me she would try her hardest to see me this week although she has work to catch up on and has two family events but she would let me know. If im unable to see her this week then I wont see her for 3 weeks and given that we only really talk when we are arranging a date we probably wont talk for 3 weeks, my question is should I communicate with her in this time or just wait till she gets back and arrange another date? would she lose interest with no contact for 3 weeks? shes already suggested things for us to do when she gets back and wants to have a night out with my sister and her bf, we are possibly in the very early stages of a relationship, her mum knows that we are seeing each other as do a few of her friends ( if this is important?).

It's semi-important.

Anyway, talk with her whenever she initiates with you, and do it yourself once ever 3-4 days if she doesn't.

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I used to hate when girls would text me all day throughout the day. And then after a while you realize that you miss it when its gone.

Just like when its hot out you wish it was cooler and when its cooler out you wish it was a bit warmer. You gotta pick one man. And whatever one you pick, understand that you will wish you had the other. Its human nature. I choose to just deal with the over attachment. Theres no "perfect" and somethings got to give. So i choose to deal with a womans neediness over dealing with her indifference.

To your question.. I don't think you should worry. So long as you remain as the guy that you've been she will be there. When you begin to let worries like this one get the best of you that is when you begin to fall out of pocket. You have to control your thoughts. You have to know how to tell yourself " Its all good. She likes me, I'll see her when I see her and we'll make it work."

Take it one day at a time. Control your mind and your control the relationship.

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