So I've been in NC moving on with my life after my ex left about 3 months ago. Im feeling great at the moment, seeing a few different girls now, and I can safely say it was a good thing that the relationship ended. I broke NC after about a month, to hear how she was, which didn't turn out too well. She thought I was trying to get back together with her by using NC. Yeah not really. Now its been over a month and a half since that and I havent spoken to her. Anyways, just a day ago, she emailed my mom asking if i still had something of hers (her passport) which i still think i have somewhere. She also said she had some of my stuff. My mom hasnt responded yet, and Im just wondering what is going on. Why not just msg me about it? What kind of game is this and what should I do? I really feel like she could do with some kind of closure if shes still carrying all that anger and hurt.

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I think the simple explanation is probably the right one here: she wants her passport back and would rather not talk to you in order to get it done, don't you?

If you truly believe the end of this relationship was a good thing, can I ask why your even care what she we doing? What kind of game she's playing (if it really is a game?)