I'm currently working on a pretty cute girl who I identified as highly bangable but not quite pretty enough to be exclusive with. she has a cute, innocent appeal to her so I asked her out for drinks. We had a good time and made out at the bar. Date 2 was a movie at her place where she resisted my attempts to bang. I went cold for a week and she texted me with the "so are you no longer interested?" line which was my golden ticket to take advantage of her moment of weakness and strike.

So we went for drinks again two fridays ago and went back to her place to bang. The sex was up there with the best I've ever had. She was begging me to spank her, slap her, choke her, and call her names. It really turned me on. And when we were done, she was on top of me begging for a round 2.

The next day, her parents were over and she invited me to meet them briefly before we went for ice cream. I wasn't thrilled with the idea of meeting them, but I did and made a good impression. We got ice cream then went back to her place, but she resisted my push for sex.

Now, because the sex was so good with her, I think I lost grip of my value and ended up becoming too desperate in my attempt to get another taste. I asked her out on Tuesday to which she said she was busy. I rescheduled for Friday and she flaked an hour beforehand saying "something came up". I then pushed for the next day (saturday) and she gave me a wishy washy "we'll see" and then texted me the next day saying she was drunk and out of town for the day.

So after three straight attempts to see her blew up, I decided to go completely cold on her and stop talking. Today, she sends me a simple "hey" and follows up an hour later with "I just want to say sorry I went missing the past week. That was really shitty of me to do."

I'm not sure how to approach this. To me, this is her way of affirming she has the control by getting me to admit that she did upset me. So I think the best course of action is to just blow it off like "oh I've been so busy I didn't even notice, it's no big deal."

The goal is to at least get one more lay before she inevitably flakes for good and moves on. How should I play this?

If you're only in it for the sex, then it really doesn't matter how you reply... You just need a reply adequate enough to get her over for sex, that's all.

"No worries, I had a crazy week anyway. Want to pop over for a movie tonight?"

Something like that...

If she's getting a whiff of relationship fever you may want to quash that one if and when it comes up... Cool to use her for sex if that's what you're both after... Not real cool to string her along.