I've been eyeing this girl for quite some time now, i work with her and everyday it's the same casual flirting. Every indication that im ready to push the boundary gets interpretted as a joke, so she is either a pro cock-blocker or oblivious. she is an HB8 or w/e the fuck category is used

i only need 2 categories: like or dislike, thats all i need. im good at reading people, as far as understanding if they are shit for brains or a genuine catch, but this girl has my head spinning. fuck the "dont start up with girls you work with" shit, i need to move forward

suggestions
comments
general bitchings from people who are sick of web jockey's and posers?

Tell her that you want to chill with her, and if you do end up chilling try to get with her. Then you'll both know what's up.

that doesnt help me. its a sensitive situation. cuz if i ask or mention that and she bolts, you cant always recover from that. im wondering if i should just abort the moving forward. taking steps back has never been an option for me, but neither is forcing the situation. i just need a (better) idea to break the stalemate

Just come straight out and ask her to hang out with you. If she says "no" then take it graciously. Just play it off like it's no big deal. Keep up with the flirting and act like nothing's changed. You'll show her that her rejection didn't phase you.